Axa,
This topic hit home. I still talk to my mother fairly often and I think the reason is because I so badly want her to show her true colors. Of course I see them, but I feel like I am baiting her in a way to get her to make the sort of obvious behavior pattern so that I could say, "Aha, see world, she is awful!!!" This is both pointless and ridiculous. I have all of you here and should know and be content with the fact that I am not making it up. But somewhere inside I want PROOF. I think my dad knows and has known for a long time. There are many past conversations and events that make me think this. But will he, or should he, even, acknlowledge that his life's partner is nuts??? He is fairly content with his hobbies... it seems to me he doesn't want to rock the boat.
So, axa, I still supply, because I maintain contact. I wish you all the strength in the world to cut off your supply to him...
((((((((axa)))))
Love, Beth