Sounds almost identical to the description my physcologist gave me about my childhood..
Most of us were so busy "survviving" we did not have time for anything else.... the voice* that belongs to every child, but goes unheard eventually retreats into a world of safety....... in my case it was my poetry

Kids Like Us
Here's to the kids who missed the dance
For hushed and silenced reasons
never got the chance
Here's to the kids who can not sing
in their ongoing suffering
Here's to the kids who sit alll alone
Even when their parents are home
Here's to the kids who accept the dare
They are the ones who really care
Here's to the kids teased and mocked
as they walked school halls
For it is their cry's that demand justice
shaming the rest one and all