Dear towrite,
So sorry you’re going thru all this junk.
But, think I might have some good news: I believe it is highly unlikely that your attorney could sue you for slander for allegations you made in a complaint before the state bar.
Note: if you made written allegations, it would be defamation, not slander.
Also, if your allegations were made in the context of a complaint against him, I believe you have an “affirmative defense” against against his allegation of slander/defamation because you made them in the context of a “judicial proceeding”.
I am in the legal profession and I did a quick google of “defense to slander” and this is what I found at
http://www.expertlaw.com/library/personal_injury/defamation.html:
What Defenses Are Available To People Accused of Defamation?
The most important defense to an action for defamation is "truth", which is an absolute defense to an action for defamation.
Another defense to defamation actions is "privilege". For example, statements made by witnesses in court, arguments made in court by lawyers, statements by legislators on the floor of the legislature, or by judges while sitting on the bench, are ordinarily privileged, and cannot support a cause of action for defamation, no matter how false or outrageous.
Thus, I would say that any statement, made in good faith, to the state bar re: bad stuff done by your lawyer are “privileged” and therefore, do not constitute slander.
Also, truth is a defense againt an allegation of slander/defamation.
For your peace of mind, google “defense to slander” and you’ll see. If you’re freaked out, consult your local legal aid office.
Now, re: you’re being a real estate agent (an area in which I also have experience), here’s my opinion: If you work very hard and HAVE A POSITIVE “CAN DO” attitude, your age is irrelevant. It’s not a question of your age, but rather the depth of your knowledge & expertise and your attitude. Educate yourself on the markets, read books, go to seminars, network and always keep your eye on the prize, which is to “close the deal”. But, ALWAYS BE ETHICAL.
Good luck. Wishing you positive self LOVING thoughts and a positive attitude.
Oh, and as for your lawyer: F*CK HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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