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And then, there was silence . . .
rosencrantz:
My mother wanted my 'H-to-be' for her own! All fluttery eyelashes and cosying up to him. :roll: "Haven't you got lovely long eyelashes", she said to him. Oh, so he has but - crikey - I'm the W-to-be and even I hadn't lookd him over that closely!!! :shock:
He just totally ignores her. Wrong technique :wink:
R
clj_writes:
LOL, Rosencrantz!!!! And what a hoot that your H ignores her. :)
Portia:
Christy:
--- Quote ---"She is just on loan to you".
--- End quote ---
The truth so often said in jest? It’s at moments like this that I wish someone would step in and speak the truth. For example in your moment there, I could look your mom in the eye and say: “So are you saying you want to have a romantic and sexual relationship with your daughter? Is that why she’s only ‘on loan’? That’s what you’re implying, to any sane person’s interpretation.” What rubbish they talk! On loan indeed, like a darn lawnmower or something, talk about objectifying you!
Rosencrantz: Oh yuk, fluttering eyelashes indeed. I’m getting a Gloria Swanson moment about your mother. Your previous post did make sense to me, before or after my editing!
rosencrantz:
LOL - Portia - You see my mother much better than I do and you make me laugh every time. But then I remember what a bewildered person she really is and I feel really sad for her. :lol: and :cry:
R
clj_writes:
Dear Portia,
I appreciate your bluntness although it made me squirm. I had never carried through on the logic (if there is such a thing) of my mother's statement. I just chalked it up as more evidence of how she wants to consume me. But you are right, I am indeed an object to her and it does not make sense to the child in her that she cannot have what she wants. Just knowing my H exists probably makes her want to throw a tantrum!
The whole romantic and sexual aspect is a demented (but possibly real) twist I'm not sure I can stomach contemplating at this point....
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