hi CB
Dad amd Mom were married in 1934 and took over Grandma's farm, while she and third husband, Tommy, moved elsewhere.
What did I thiink? I saw that a mother was heaping guilt and shame on her son. She had to be in control. I see that in none of those letters did she refer to mom or the children except for in passing--that he was married--that he had mouths to feed. She yapped about the money he owed her and she needed burail expenses and diedda bout 20 years after those letters.
She wanted visiting to be Dad one Sunday, while mom and the kids stayed home, and Mom the next Sunday, while Dad and the kids stayed home.
He had too many kids, so if that bothered his mother then he beat us to get even, I guess.
Talk about generational defect.
Izzy