grat: N will comment on just the thing the person feels uncomfortable about
Keep something in mind...a narcissist does not care how you feel! They seriously don't. TO those of us who don't purposely blurt out things to hurt people's feelings, this makes no sense.
Narcissists are TACTLESS and CRUEL...that is the nature of Narcissism. They will say ANYTHING and I mean ANYTHING to cut you, hurt you, shame you, embarass you. They will say things that make you just sit in SHOCK..."did SHE really SAY what I think I just heard?" YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS she sure DID and she doesn't CARE that it felt AFFRONTIVE and MEAN to you. In fact, she rather enjoyed seeing you squirm in shock and horror.
Believe me, I know what I'm talking about. It's totally shocking and bewildering but it's TRUTH.
~Laura
