Hiya Beth
It was more that I discovered something.
It is possible to have no feelings at all in the emotive sense. That caught my eye as that whole other thread was trying to get people to understnad that I have" no feelings at all". Like trying explain N-ism to someone who doesn't know?
Upon checking more there is Ration Emotive Behavioural Therapy whereby the past is not a part of it. It "focuses on changing the current evaluations and philosophical thinking about our lives, others and ourselves".
"Irrational beliefs prevent goal attainment, lead to inner conflict, lead to more conflict with others and poor mental health."
"In other words, human beings on the basis of their belief system actively, though not always consciously, disturb themselves, and even disturb themselves about their disturbances."
So I am now trying to get some input for the therapist for the two of us to investigate my beliefs, values, etc. currentlly and leave the past alone.
Thanks for running to the other thread!
;0)
Love
Izzy
