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changing

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Re: Healing is a roller coaster
« Reply #15 on: August 07, 2007, 12:47:28 PM »
Lighter!

Your wisdom and sly humor are a real "soul tonic"!

Hugs!!!!

Changing
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Re: Healing is a roller coaster
« Reply #16 on: August 07, 2007, 12:54:42 PM »
It's ironic humor, lol! 

IRONIC!
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Ami

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Re: Healing is a roller coaster
« Reply #17 on: August 07, 2007, 02:17:27 PM »

I think life is teaching us that as we heal we can still pull ourselves back to happiness... when we're reminded, or tricked, or hurt again. This is important to me, because it seemed between 1969 and 2007 - I didn't have a clue what happiness felt like; I even prevented myself from feeling it - so "someone" (who else? my mom) wouldn't come along and ruin


Dear Shunned,
   I have been doing this since age 14. I have not let myself be happy for some reason(and i don't realy know the reason). I just know that I have been doing it.I guess it feels "wrong" somehow to be happy. It feels like I am betraying my M somehow .  Maybe,it is the 'fear " that she will come and take it away( even though she is not physically here).
   I would love to hear more about this. Maybe, I will start a thread  . Thanks for expressing it, Shunned
                                           Love    Ami
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Re: Healing is a roller coaster
« Reply #18 on: August 07, 2007, 02:27:38 PM »
Hi lighter

Happy Happiness to you.

Are things really going well and no complaints?  Great!

Me too and I feel surreal

now my sister says that I ought to write a book.

Love
Izzy




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finding peace

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Re: Healing is a roller coaster
« Reply #19 on: August 07, 2007, 06:43:47 PM »
Well Light - if I had to coax a BWFK out of a urine saturated crawl space with something really tasty that a cat likes (which no doubt smelled to high heaven) I would most likely have been replacing the Fluffy in BWFK with some more imaginative F-words!

I am so glad you are able to pull out of the lows and find the happiness.  Your "IRONIC" humor is a soul tonic (I can't tell you how many times I have had to wipe coffee off my computer screen after reading some of your posts - thanks!).

Peace
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lighter

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Re: Healing is a roller coaster
« Reply #20 on: August 08, 2007, 12:22:47 AM »
Well, Finding Peace, lol..... have an extra keyboard around.... for on accounta ya just never know when the coffee will muck it up to the point it refuses to work anymore, lol. 

I've gone through 3 so far.... and it's always a chore since not all work with the computer you have: /

A really good sense of humor, coffee and a computer aren't a very good combo :shock:

Izzy... yes. 

Things really are going well.

I have some things going very well in my life right now. 

I can see the light at the end of the tunnel.... 

the bad new is..... I'm an eternal optimist so the tunnel may be longer than I can wrap my mind around: /

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