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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
changing:
Missy Janet-
You are, as always, the consumate hostess! The perfect touch! Thank you for the incredibly infernal suggestion!
Love from your friend,
Changing
Ami:
NOW--- we are having an interesting discussion Ami
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: changing on September 01, 2007, 11:26:04 AM ---Hi Miss Bones!
I thought we should plan a party for your friend- I could whip up an onion cherry liver cake with tofu raspberry-garlic frosting, and as for her gifts, we could wrap up a lovely rutabaga, some pretty rhubarb, and pour some carrot juice in a (flimsy) box! Atop the cake, using kippers, we can write "Bug off, Bug -a-loo!"
Hugs,
Changing
P.S. Block her calls to your cell during hotline duty!
Love,
C.
--- End quote ---
:lol:
Thanks, Changing!
Also, I make it a point of just shutting the phone off completely while I'm on duty so that any calls automatically go to my voice mail where I can screen them.
Bones
BonesMS:
The thought just occurred to me that when said "friend" thoughtlessly blathered her sister's address to everyone at the dinner table, she mindlessly violated that sister's boundary as well. She also attempted to justify this violation by stating that this sister "chose not to attend the party"! (The sister in question has a teenage son and his needs come first. That is what mothers usually do if they are not Ns.) Then she has the nerve to wonder why we all get irritated at her while she attempts to act unintelligent about what she just did and continues to have her head up her own bottom! Sheesh!!! :x
Bones
BonesMS:
I think she's gotten the message as she has left me alone for now.
Bones
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