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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Ami on October 14, 2007, 11:16:04 AM ---Dear Bones,
My "advice" would be to "feel" out what is happening rather than talk about it. This is my current lesson in life , anyway.
I am realizing that someone can "tell" you something and not be telling you the truth(either knowingly or unknowingly) . However, your gut feelings will lead you right more times than not.
As my former cop b/c used to say,"I will trust my feelings.If I am wrong,I am wrong. However,it is my MOST reliable guide."He escaped danger and death many times ,so he should know--lol Love Ami
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Thanks, Ami.
He's trying to make amends after he read my e-mails. He stopped by my job today, bringing me a can of green tea with peach. I'll be watching one day at a time.
Bones
BonesMS:
I think he's still trying. He called me from his office to try to figure out why I am unable to reach his extension when I dial his office number. He soon realized that, apparently, his extension can no longer be reached directly by an outside number. (His employer recently changed their phone system.) He's going to check further and let me know what he finds. (That's a start.)
Bones
Ami:
Dear Bones,
My thought (inside) would be ,"I am special. If a person wants a relationship with me that have to act in certain ways that I value(respect,honesty, consideration etc). If they don't want(or can't) do it, then they are gone".Who said the profound words,"Prick me, I am done,?"
I got to this place with my M( who is EXACTLY like your friend). I am DONE Ami
PS---- You are right to be in" Waiting "mode for right now, Bones,(IMO)
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Ami on October 16, 2007, 12:35:45 PM ---Dear Bones,
My thought (inside) would be ,"I am special. If a person wants a relationship with me that have to act in certain ways that I value(respect,honesty, consideration etc). If they don't want(or can't) do it, then they are gone".Who said the profound words,"Prick me, I am done,?"
I got to this place with my M( who is EXACTLY like your friend). I am DONE Ami
PS---- You are right to be in" Waiting "mode for right now, Bones,(IMO)
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Thanks, Ami.
Also, the Nfriend that's been acting the doofus sends me another e-mail today asking me if I want to buy a used car from her other friend (who happens to be a FLAMING N!) I have not responded to that e-mail. I don't want to waste the energy to type on the keyboard to her "H@#$ NO!!!!!!"
Bones
Ami:
It took you long enough(lol).but you learned, Right Bones? Love Ami
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