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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
Twoapenny:
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--- Quote from: BonesMS on October 24, 2019, 12:26:15 PM ---Many, many decades ago when I was younger and much stupider, I had a brief fling with a good-looking dude.
Recently, as I was researching my late Dad's ancestry, (whose history I did NOT know about until 1997), I discovered that the good-looking dude is my SIXTH COUSIN!!!!
Talk about AWKWARD!!!!!!!!!!!
:shock:
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Oh Bones! That is such a shock! I have heard stories like that before, where people have discovered they are distant relations after becoming friends or romantically attached. It must be an odd sensation?! Does he know what you've discovered as well? I hope the shock wears off soon, it's a big bit of news! Hope you're okay xx
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He and his siblings don't know yet.
I think I found his sister on Ancestry and I sent a brief message about finding empirical data about her ancestors. I want to explain the facts, with the data, before that bombshell gets dropped.
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Sounds sensible to me, Bones. My Lord, what a finding. Do they all live near you still or are these distant relatives far away geographically as well? xx
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on October 25, 2019, 12:32:43 PM ---
--- Quote from: BonesMS on October 25, 2019, 10:55:19 AM ---
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on October 25, 2019, 05:26:32 AM ---
--- Quote from: BonesMS on October 24, 2019, 12:26:15 PM ---Many, many decades ago when I was younger and much stupider, I had a brief fling with a good-looking dude.
Recently, as I was researching my late Dad's ancestry, (whose history I did NOT know about until 1997), I discovered that the good-looking dude is my SIXTH COUSIN!!!!
Talk about AWKWARD!!!!!!!!!!!
:shock:
--- End quote ---
Oh Bones! That is such a shock! I have heard stories like that before, where people have discovered they are distant relations after becoming friends or romantically attached. It must be an odd sensation?! Does he know what you've discovered as well? I hope the shock wears off soon, it's a big bit of news! Hope you're okay xx
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He and his siblings don't know yet.
I think I found his sister on Ancestry and I sent a brief message about finding empirical data about her ancestors. I want to explain the facts, with the data, before that bombshell gets dropped.
--- End quote ---
Sounds sensible to me, Bones. My Lord, what a finding. Do they all live near you still or are these distant relatives far away geographically as well? xx
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Most of them are in the midwest while I'm on the east coast so, geographically, we are hundreds of miles apart.
Twoapenny:
Gosh Bonesie, well at least that means you won't bump into each other when you're out buying groceries and they can digest the info in their own time and have a bit of head space to take it all in. I hope the situation goes as well as it can; it's very weird how people can kind of find each other when they don't know they're related - almost like something kind of pulls people together. I hope the situation settles down okay xx
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on October 26, 2019, 03:28:52 AM ---Gosh Bonesie, well at least that means you won't bump into each other when you're out buying groceries and they can digest the info in their own time and have a bit of head space to take it all in. I hope the situation goes as well as it can; it's very weird how people can kind of find each other when they don't know they're related - almost like something kind of pulls people together. I hope the situation settles down okay xx
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Me too. It's a lot to process.
Hopalong:
Hi Bones,
Do you feel better about the sixth-cousin thing?
That seems so far removed that I don't see it as skeevy in any way.
I hope you have happy memories.
Hops
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