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Re: Darren's story
« on: September 10, 2007, 12:43:26 PM »
Hello Darren,

   You weren't an odd kid, you were in an odd situation, to put it mildly.

    I'm glad that you are on your journey.

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Re: Darren's story
« Reply #1 on: September 10, 2007, 12:50:20 PM »
Dear Darren,
  You sound like a sweet,lovable, very smart and "with it" little kid                       Love  Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung

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Re: Darren's story
« Reply #2 on: September 10, 2007, 01:19:50 PM »
Welcome, Darren. Thank you for writing all that.
It must have been draining to do. I am sorry your mother was insane.

What a BRAVE and resourceful and resilient kid you were,
to survive so much violence and craziness.

Here's wishing you a gentle-voiced companion who will
speak kindly to you for the rest of your days.

(Even if it's a beagle.)

love,
Hopalong
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Re: Darren's story
« Reply #3 on: September 10, 2007, 06:43:02 PM »
Welcome, Darren. Thank you for writing all that.
It must have been draining to do. I am sorry your mother was insane.

What a BRAVE and resourceful and resilient kid you were,
to survive so much violence and craziness.

Here's wishing you a gentle-voiced companion who will
speak kindly to you for the rest of your days.

(Even if it's a beagle.)

love,
Hopalong

Yes, it was draining... but its good to get it out and hear some support.

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Re: Darren's story
« Reply #4 on: September 10, 2007, 09:55:22 PM »
(((((((((((((((Darren)))))))))))
I am very glad you are here. I read your other post too, but haven't had much time to write. Your story will help others and I hope you are finding some peace here among us as well.
Love, Beth
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Re: Darren's story
« Reply #5 on: September 13, 2007, 10:04:48 PM »
Wow darren I just read your story.  The way you described doing your laundry while all that insanity was going on around you just says it all.  What an image.   I recognized what you said about your mom starting in on your brother first thing in the morning and provoking and provoking.  My dad did that to me also.  He would wake me up at 7 a.m. on a Saturday and be angry because I "expected to sleep in all day."  Then he would demand I do a list of chores starting immediately.  It was all to make me lose my cool so that he would be justified in raging.  Sick.  It never ever got to the pitch of violence as with your bro, who sounds like quite a lost soul.  I'm sorry.  Thank you for sharing your story.
Character, which has nothing to do with intellect or skill, can evolve only by increasing our capacity to love, and to become lovable. - Joan Grant

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« Reply #6 on: September 14, 2007, 10:56:31 PM »
Thanks for the comments everybody!  I haven't had time to repond much either... i was getting myself all wound up and had to take a break