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Re: Pray that house sells
« Reply #105 on: October 26, 2007, 07:11:44 PM »
Ok so the house with stainless sold.  So I got to thinking that your house was outdated so we dropped the price $20000.  Then the realtor brought over one of those design ladies who basically told up we should really do some updating to move it so I told him if we did put another three to four thousand into it then I want to raise the price $10000.  What I really want to do is settle into my new beautiful house!
Kelly

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Re: Pray that house sells
« Reply #106 on: October 26, 2007, 08:33:19 PM »
We had to upgrade  our house( a few thousand) before we could sell it. Then,it sold shortly after.
 I miss hearing from you,Kelly. You must be very busy.   Love to you .           Ami
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Re: Pray that house sells
« Reply #107 on: October 27, 2007, 09:07:32 AM »
Thanks!  Yes I am so busy and my feet hurt!  I think I am too old for retail AND For moving AND For having two houses.
Kelly

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Re: Pray that house sells
« Reply #108 on: October 27, 2007, 09:47:19 AM »
Listen to your realtor...... sell that house!  Then you can relax into your new nest: )

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« Reply #109 on: October 27, 2007, 10:32:35 AM »
Well, I am going to meet a contractor today so I can show him what needs to be done.  The flooring guy already told me how much it will cost.  Then I started pricing black knobs for the cabinets.......quite a bit when you start multiplying them buy dozens......my husband was cussing at the thought of these spoiled 20 and 30 somethings.  We are from a generation where if you lower the price, someone will snag it and do their own touches.  Apparently this younger generation wants it all.  I look at my cousin and he is around 32......he wants it all.  He and his wife want to move into a home that is all fixed up.  That AND very affordable.  Plus they have bad credit.  So they are delusional enough to think they can have it all.  The decorator says that is indicative of that generation.  She said they will walk into your home and see the brass and walk out......totally discount the home because it doesn't look new.  But it is 12 years old and priced much lower than new so they could go in and fix it up and get a much larger home than a new one AND have all they want.....but they are lazy and don't want to do any work.  So I am a baby boomer and I work.  I work my butt off and am not afraid to work.  I resent these young people.  I resent my cousin who has never returned one phone call to me.  I call, they don't answer AND don't return calls.  My cousin is in the ministry and I told my aunt that if you are in the ministry then you need to be available to people.  So (of course) my aunt made every excuse for him.  NO.  Auntie.  Stop making excuses for yourself AND your family.  I call a spade a spade.

So can you tell I am PMSing??  Yes, I am.  And sorry if any of you fall in the 20 to 30 something demographic......maybe I am over generalizing but that is how the designer categorized this age group. 
Kelly

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« Reply #110 on: October 27, 2007, 10:37:45 AM »
Nope.... it's true.  People do want it all.

Especially home buyers.

I'm curiouse about what you're doing in the renovation.

The floors are going from vinyl.....?  To what?

The knobs are going to black from brass... on what kind of cabinets?

Are you chaning appliances?

Countertops?

Sink?


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Re: Pray that house sells
« Reply #111 on: October 27, 2007, 09:04:09 PM »
The cabinets are medium to dark oak.  The sink is stainless-we replaced a scratched up white sink.  We probably will go with laminate which is a fake hard wood floor.  The appliances are black.
Kelly

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« Reply #112 on: October 27, 2007, 09:07:49 PM »
We will go with a counter that looks like granite.  The house is not high end enough to warrant real granite and real hard wood but now we have a banged up white counter and vinyl that has faded etc.
Kelly

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« Reply #113 on: October 28, 2007, 08:08:58 PM »
So yesterday a couple with small children came through our house.  I prayed the WHOLE time they were in there.  I prayed and prayed and prayed.  I told the realtor that he could not match the square footage of this house in the whole town at this price.  Then nothing.  Another couple went through today.  Nothing.  I have prayed and prayed.  You know?  Some people bury St. Jospeph statues in their yard.  I just don't think it works.  I would rather just pray to God and leave the Saint alone.....but I really want this to sell.  And I am PMSing and have been laying in bed all day with cramps.  I did buy a sofa for the new house....leather recliner....very nice....and I got them to take 20% off.......

Oh please!!!  DEar Lord.  I just need this house to sell.    (Boy this is reminiscent of my pleading to God that I get that job for four months and then they gave it to someone else......I hope this doesn't drag out for that long!!)
Kelly

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Re: Pray that house sells
« Reply #114 on: October 28, 2007, 09:10:42 PM »
Oh Kelly,
  You sound so desperate. I would forget the statues,too. I will keep you in my prayers. PMS will pass ,even when you don't think so at the time.
  Sending love to you and a cup of tea(cyberspace style)                   Love  Ami

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« Reply #115 on: October 28, 2007, 10:12:48 PM »
One thing I know for sure is that for about three or four days a month I totally lose it!  It is as if a black cloud just moves in and settles right over my head-follows me around and skews my perceptions.  I am all doom and gloom.  I know this will pass.  But I still just want the house to sell.  I am expecting my house to sell.  I have faith that God will not let me down.  Am you are always there just when I need you!  Thanks!
Kelly

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Re: Pray that house sells
« Reply #116 on: October 29, 2007, 07:25:36 AM »
I'm still praying with you that the house sells, Overcomer. 

Sorry you have those dark days.... they'll pass.

How's the renovation going? 

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Re: Pray that house sells
« Reply #117 on: October 29, 2007, 08:23:51 AM »
Dear Kelly,
  I am glad that I can offer some solace to you. You have so much on your plate and seem to handleit very,very well. You seem like a great mother.                                                             Love   Ami

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Re: Pray that house sells
« Reply #118 on: October 29, 2007, 09:23:53 AM »
Well luckily my youngest daughter is out of school today so I get to sleep in.  Then I get to do some work around my NEW house!  It is so nice that it helps me to stay possitive.  I am definitely not a Suzy Homemaker but I am a friend of my kids.  My H is not a parent to them so I get to do all the parenting.  I am not a birchslgmarian (that is T9 for disciplinarian)  The renovation is in my head so we will see what happens!
Kelly

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« Reply #119 on: October 29, 2007, 09:29:46 AM »
Dear Kelly,
  The most important thing (IMO) is to have a friendship( basic respect and consideration) with your kids. Also,it sounds like you have fun with them.I always did this and still do. Kids are so musch fun. People miss out when they don't have simple fun with kids.
 My love and best to you ,Kelly                              Love   Ami

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Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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