Does anyone ever REALLY divorce a narcissist? Yes, I have been legally divorced from my NH for almost two years. However, because we have two daughers (ages 11 and 7), he still constantly torments me (or tries to) through them. I try just giving in, not arguing, and avoiding confrontation and even verbal communication with him at all costs. But like any n, the more I give, the more he takes... which forces me into yet another confrontation in which I want to pull out every hair in my head! I think I have read every book out there on narcissism, and yet it still astounds me how these people have no remorse, no compassion, no empathy etc. How do the rest of you who have to share custody (the legal system in this matter is a huge frustration in itself!!!) with their ex nh handle the madness they create (or try to create) on nearly a daily basis???? Help!!!!
Atti
P.S. New to the site and not sure I'm using all the abbreviations correctly yet??!!!