Having a Good life Finally!

[kelly8893]

Hey guys it's been awhile since I chatted with you all. I hope everyone is doing well and having a good time or good cry every now and then!!
I have been doing well on my road to recovery after leaving my alcoholic
husband and my phsyco N boyfriend!! I had upsetting news today, I had people from my ex-job call me and told me they had heard a rumor about me and my kids and that we were in a car accident and died!!!
How horrible is that to think someone thought that and then told someone else without looking up the facts!!! My son the humorist said "mom maybe we are dead and we don't know it" I told him I still have bills to pay so I am sure I am alive Anyway it kind of freaked me out that someone would say such awful things but then that is why I left such horror people behind. Unfortuntely we have to leave the bad behind to find the good and I have, my new job is going awesome and I have made so many friends!!!  Change is good no matter how you get there it is GOOD!!!! To think less then a year ago my dream of finding a good job and a nice home and people who care about me was a pipe dream but I took a leap of faith and it made me soar!!!! Thanks for letting me vent about my awful experience today!! Have a great Friday and weekend!!!
Kelly

[Michelle]

Hi Kelly -

That is awful.  It is so hard to believe that there are people out there like that - that would just say that without checking into it.  I would feel very upset too.  Kudos for starting your life anew in a healthy way.  Congrats on fulfilling your dreams and may you continue to soar!!!!!  : )

Comforting hugs,
Michelle

[Anonymous]

Hi Kelly,

It is great to hear from you!    

Wow, how strange that someone would initiate such a rumor about you and your family.  My impressions are someone (an immature someone) felt rejected by your leaving and/or was offended that you didn't choose to stay in touch so obviously you must have died before making that choice!  

I had a similar experience in that it was supposedly so COOL to be in this abusive work environment (it wasn't for me, but I bought into it for the longest time).  When I left, I doubled my salary and worked with way nicer people!  They actually respected me for who I was and my abilities instead of demanding I be someone else ("cool" like them).  

Don't look back and stay focussed on the great stuff ahead of you!  Love your son's sense of humor   Take care, Seeker

[kelly8893]

Thanks guys! It really helps to hear feed back and to know I am not alone! I have been so busy and having a great time that when I heard this upsetting news, I too felt it was from an immature individual and chalked it up to me not wanting to stay in touch with the "cool people" that really are nothing but coniving, mean, awful, spiteful people!!!
Thanks for being my angel on my shoulders!! Have a great weekend . Staying focused and free from icky people as much as possible!!!!

Kelly