Hi Kim,
Thanks for taking the time to read my story. Also, thanks for your post.
Believe it or not, I printed your entire story about a week ago, really. I took it home with me since I tend to live at work and rarely get on my home computer.
Your story is long but interesting, I have read through about 65% of it. I'm still reflecting and I need to read it again. A lot has happened in the last week; I have lost track of where I was, sorry.
Slowly I have been working my way through your forgiveness thread. Anger is my issue, at least for now. I have some real deep hurt behind the anger -- I have found that forgiveness is a process but that I have to want it, I have to seek, persue and claim it all the while I cry and feel what never got felt or expressed from my childhood -- can you relate?
A while back I posted about victim anger (look back at Victim Anger part 1 and 2 on pages 4 or 5 of this board), after reading some of your life story and some of your other posts here the thought has crossed my mind to respond to your forgiveness thread and ask if you would read the Victim Anger stuff and give me your take?
I can post it here if you would like?
It has only been about a 8 weeks that I have been on the board; I have found that if you hang tough, trust, as you say, and keep using your voice you will meet some genuine people, like yourself who will be encouraging and strengthening.
Hope you stay - nice to meet you.
Lise