Lupita.... how're you feeling today?

[lighter]

You got very quiet....  just wanted to make sure you were ok.

[Lupita]

Very confused. Sad.

You made me notice the inconsistencies in my post.
The only problem is that I was posting exactly the things that were happening.
Just the things that GFM says and does.
Like you said, it does not make any sense.
So, what can I do?
GFM is making me crazy.
But if I post about that, wich is the things that is affecting me right now, I lose the only simpathy I have in the only place I can find some sympathy.
I am very honest. And I feel bad when somebody dougbt my honesty. My post was inconsistent but I was being honest. Infact, I do not understand why GFM says that she wants my son to take care pf her D when she has enough money. She can buy just about any boyfriend for her. Why my son? I guess the girl chosed him.
Now, GFM is doing even worst things.
I think that she is very unhealthy. How can she ask me to marry them and hide from GF the fact? Why is she so desperate to marry her with my son? Why is she so pushy?
I dont know.
Now that you asked, I will start another thread on that. I am scared. If people get mad at me, well, I dont know what to do.

[Lupita]

GF the last time is grand father.

[lighter]

I knew it was grandfather, Lupita, lol.

I wasn't mad at you and inconsistencies weren't something I saw in your posts.  I was just doing what I do..... asking questions so I can see them and other people can too.

I think GF chose your son for a husband as well.

I think her mother is dreaming of planning a wedding and bouncing grandbabies.

Maybe that's true.....maybe it's not.

I'm curiouse.... what is GFM saying on phone and doing now?

After the chat in the kitchen where your son showed some backbone and let everyone know he's not a little boy, subject to the whims of the women in his life?

::going to look for new thread from Lupita::

You haven't lost support on the board.

There's always someone here for all of us.

[Lupita]

Thank you for asking. I appreciate that.

[Hopalong]

Hi Lup,
How about just saying No, I won't do that (help disguise the gf from the GF to get the rent).
How about saying No, I think I'd like to stop having these phone conversations about the kids with you, because I want to respect their privacy.

??

I'm sorry this is so hard, I know it is. I just wonder if you can make some decisions about how much access (phone time, etc.) you will give this woman.

It's not going to help you be closer to your son, if you have no boundaries in place with GFM.

Can you change the subject and keep changing the subject? Like, ask her questions about her OWN life, if you feel you must talk to her? Or better yet, be too busy to be talking to her except now and then, and on more superficial topics?

xo
Hops