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Lupita... .what did you end up saying to GFM?
« on: January 14, 2008, 07:52:02 PM »
About those piano lessons?  What happened?

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Re: Lupita... .what did you end up saying to GFM?
« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2008, 08:16:38 PM »
She came, and I offered the lesson for free. Very pushy lady. Then she wrote the check and told me that she would pay another teacher if I did not charge. Then I said, OK. So, if I was looking for students, and she is willing to pay for lessons, I will give her lessons.

Thanks the Lord I had a peaceful day at school. I appreciate very much a peaceful day. Just rutine problems, nothing serious. I start appreciating boring, rutine days. After so much suffering, I love tranquile days.

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Re: Lupita... .what did you end up saying to GFM?
« Reply #2 on: January 15, 2008, 11:41:25 AM »
Was your 6th period tranquil too.... or are you just getting used to the regular bumps in the road?

Sounds like you handled GFM just fine, btw. 


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Re: Lupita... .what did you end up saying to GFM?
« Reply #3 on: January 15, 2008, 05:38:51 PM »
A little that I am getting used to the bumps and a little that indeed my sixth period was tranquile yesterday. Today they were horrible. But, I felt disgusted for about a couple of hours and now I feel just indifferent.

I do not care anymore. I guess that is what they want. This particular group are very lazy kids, they do not want to work and as soon as they have to do something a little challenging they get very mad at me and start complaining, making noises, laughing, trying to get me off work, so they do not have to do it. But Today I just did not care, too bad, finish your quiz, I dont care if you like me or not.  I am very tired of them.

On the other side, my other five classes are just wonderful and I praise the Lord for those studenrts that are nice and I love them with all my heart. They help me keep going.

Anyway, I do not feel sad today, despite sixth period disrespect.

Thank you for asking.

How are you Lighter? Can you talk about discipline problems with your children? How many children do you have, what age?

Do we have any high school teachers here?

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Re: Lupita... .what did you end up saying to GFM?
« Reply #4 on: January 15, 2008, 05:48:16 PM »
hi Lupita

What are you allowed to say to these lazy boys?

Can you say, "OK all you boys who are not paying attention and just disrupting the class, I will drown you out and deal with those who want to learn. If you continue as you are. you will just fail this class and have to deal with me another year!"

---or is that threatening?---give them a complex?-- get you fired?

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Re: Lupita... .what did you end up saying to GFM?
« Reply #5 on: January 15, 2008, 05:58:27 PM »
Hi Izzi how are you beautiful?  I am so glad you ask me that.

Yes, it is a threat. In a private school you have to be very polite, extremely professional. And you have to put up with a lot of s*it.
They pay, we are almost directly catoring for those rich parents who will back children up at all costs.

Also, several fo my kids, have been expelled from public schools. Those bad behaved, are all together in that same class. Bad administration in my opinion. But good at the same time. That way, I have all my bad ones at one time and not spread during the all day.

So, it is a little better that last semester, last week they behaved well Tuesday, bad on Wednesday and Thursday, and well on Friday.
This week well on Monday, bad today. Let us see how they behave the rest of this week.

It would be interesting to have a graphic on how they behave.

I am going to salsa class tonight. First time in almost two months.

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Re: Lupita... .what did you end up saying to GFM?
« Reply #6 on: January 15, 2008, 06:11:50 PM »
Hi

You could make your own Graph and put it up front.... or is that bad too?

I have great ideas, but they are not often do-able!

Enjoy salsa class--- I love it with Natchos--so give me the recipe-- (joke**)

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Re: Lupita... .what did you end up saying to GFM?
« Reply #7 on: January 16, 2008, 09:59:12 AM »
How are you Lighter? Can you talk about discipline problems with your children? How many children do you have, what age?

Do we have any high school teachers here?

I have little children..... no teens yet but glad to talk about something I'm interested in, child discipline.

Do these kids care whether they pass or fail?

Do they suffer consequences when they fail?

Do they have to retake courses they fail?

How much do you suffer when children fail the course?

You can only do what you can do. 

If they don't do the work, pay attention and participate..... then the natural consequence for that is failure, in my book.

I'd also send their cans right out of the class when they misbehaved.....  they wouldn't be allowed to disrupt the class for the children who were paying attention.

I forget what you said about that..... sending kids to the principal's office.... it was a nightmare for you bc of something.... dealing with principal I seem to remember.

Discipline is a problem with these children, not just for you but everyone.  I'd make sure the person responsible for dealing with that crap had a lap full of it.... the principal. 

You've done all these really wonderful incentive type things to gain their cooperation.  That's positive and that works for the children who're willing to be won over.  For those who seem to be making a career out of creating chaos and disruptions..... better they be called on it now than keep going along without real consequences. 

I'd shrug..... smile and ask them to please report to the principals office..... as many times as it took for them to get that I'm not bothered.... their behavior won't be tolerated and they probably won't be getting a passing grade for that kind of participation.

Not sure if that helps.... but you just know they aren't angels for all the other teachers, and just not you.  No matter what anyone says..... they're disruptive eslewhere too.  Allowing them to get away with that isn't doing them any favors, IMO.

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Re: Lupita... .what did you end up saying to GFM?
« Reply #8 on: January 16, 2008, 11:29:14 AM »
Hi Lupita,

I just wanted to say as a parent I am so sorry these children behave in such a way and get away with it. I do understand and think it's sad so many parents stick up for the children and their unacceptable behavior, how frustrating for you. ((hugs))

My daughter is a senior in a private High School. Next year she will be starting college
her major.......
 high school math TEACHER! Yikes........
Wishing you the best. seasons

Lighter,
I reply was right on target, great support. seasons

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« Reply #9 on: January 16, 2008, 11:34:05 AM »
Hey, Lupita.... why did you not go to Salsa class for so long?
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Did the take a winter break?

It always cheers me up to picture you twirling happily in a red dress, lol.

Seasons.... thanks for your comment.  I don't have teens yet.... I'm almost afraid to comment and jinx myself :shock: