I never want to see my mother have to endure an operation of any kind. But it's even worse because of my nsister/ her ndaughter... She has treated my mother so awfully over these past two years (especially).
Last year we went through this when she needed to have surgery, and Tuesday we will do it all over again.
Mom needs a knee replacement. My nsister who doesn't come around, never calls mom, and seems to do and say things all the time to upset her, will prob show up at the hospital sometime throughout this latest ordeal, and act like daughter of the year. She had words with me and my father last time (at the hospital)
because she didn't feel like she was kept in the loop as far as mom's condition was concerned. I don't have contact with her at all if I can help it. I am praying for strength for mom to get through the surgery, and for her and myself to deal with my nsister.
thanks,
Jan