Dear Axa,
I think that the next step for me ,in healing, is related to your thread. We have to accept the evil part of our nature ,if we are to be whole(IMO).
By accepting it, we are much less likely to act on it.If we are blind to it, we would be MORE likely to act on it.
In any Social Psychology experiment ,most of the people did the "immoral" thing.
In Nazi Germany, very few people saved people. Kitty Genovese was murdered while a crowd watched.
I think the larger issue is what enables the "few" people to stand above the crowd.How do they manage their own evil and chose "good"?
That to me is the root question, NOT that we think "evil" things. I have been wrestling with these issues since I got on the board. I am just ,now, finding the solutions,for myself. Compost what does not fit, Axa. Ami