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janisty07

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Invisablility treatment
« on: March 21, 2008, 07:20:00 PM »
After my last post I was asked to elaborate a little more on the invisibility treatment by my n sister.  Let's see... She's been a n her whole life.  Only after a heated family feud 3 years ago this Easter did everything come out.  I finally called her on her n ways.  A few weeks later me and my parents went to her house to try to "talk" things out with her. It didn't go well to say the least.  I detached myself from her at that point.  I only see her when I "have" to.  That's when she treats me (and sometimes my son) as if I were invisible.
She looks past me, almost through me.  Even if a total stranger walks past one would say hello...??  But she
doesn't even do that.  I will say hello and keep walking.  It's not an easy thing to go through, but it's the only way I can deal at this point. 
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Re: Invisablility treatment
« Reply #1 on: March 22, 2008, 10:42:17 AM »
Dear Janis,
 I am sorry about your sister. It must be very hard. You seem to realize that there is nothing you can do to make it better. That seems to be all you CAN do, in the situation.                                    Hugs to you,   Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung