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STFUP:
There is only one person that can be sure this isn't Phoenix..... and that's Phoenix.
That's all that matters to me...
phoenix:
bye
Anonymous:
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--- Quote from: Anonymous ---you who doesn't see it now i suggest you to watch for it in the future. you will see the real thing.
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It's already starting.
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Yes Michelle , you should get paranoid to, just like me.
See what is developing here Michelle (and silent others?)
Yep ,you can expect that everything I ever posted will be dragged up and used against me. That's why people who have been here before have kept silent. Busy little stinging bee.
And be alert and be very scared for the diversionary tactics- new posters (look out for all new posters ) with quite dramatic stories. Now how will you know? You won't.
But consider it possible.
I have my own guidelines and
I have been pretty correct in using them,
watching personalities blow in , blow out.
Sorry,
I can't share what my guidelines are,
because I dont want to aid the creative writer in smoothing out their technique.
And if you are not sure, but suspect? I suggest just go ahead and treat everyone as real, it is the curteous thing to do, answer as you would normally. It is at the very least practice at putting your thoughts to paper, and someone else may be aided.Phoenix[/[/size]quote]
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Yes, pheonix, we're all not only voiceless, but we're stupid too and it seems we're to be dependent on you to interpret our reality for us.
Oh, are you the boogey man pheonix? Why try to scare Michelle into beleiving she can't trust her own judgement. That's a bit off, I think. You say, because you can't share the secret of how you interpret. Have signed a coven oath. What is it that's so dreadfully secret? Are you reading tea leaves and ashamed of the weak source?
Pleeeze give us a break, and credit some intelligence to this board. Are you trying to scare everyone into believing you're smarter than everyone else and have some insight that we all lack? So we become dependent on you for the truth we believe and for you to interpret reality for us.
PUKE! :evil: It was talk and obsessive behaviour like yours from people like you who caused me to need to come here in the first place[/b]
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Hi pheonix hun, like talking to yourself and encouraging yourself, do you? You sure do a lot of it! :D All your imaginary guest friends are out in full force still, I see. :D
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allusedup:
i've just been thru legal and medical matters with my Nfather, and was thisclose to posting about it, and asking for opinions and advice from others who'd been there.
So I stopped in and caught up on this thread - honestly, at this point, with the meanness and vindictiveness, namecalling and just plain ugliness, how can ANYONE feel safe sharing?
All I can figure out is: someone is lying, I have no idea who it is, and I'm sure that there are many like me who would like some help, or to get things off our chest, and be honest.
But...there is obviously one or more people who are hellbent to destroy any safe feelings here at all. I'd imagine there will be helpful people who will tell me to "go ahead, share, we'll listen, we care" - these aren't the people I'm talking about. I believe them, but there are others who hog these threads, who sound so damned narcisisstic themselves that I might as well talk to my Nfather and expect to get some empathy.
WHO CARES ABOUT THESE ARGUMENTS? WHY ARE THEY CONTINUING TO GO ON? WHY ISN'T SOMETHING DONE ABOUT THEM?
In all honesty, it's difficult to "avoid" looking at these kinds of threads, because they're becoming very pervasive, and there seems to be several people who for one reason or another, would like to destroy this board for the rest of us. I would not disclose or share anything about myself or my situation at this point in time if I was paid by the word!
I know it doesn't matter (in the big picture) if I disclose/share here or not...BUT IT MATTERS TO ME THAT I CAN'T....and for God's sake, I thought that was what this board was about, not attack after attack, childish name calling, accusations, and posts that sound the same as the abusive people that some of us are trying to find healing from being exposed to.
I know my contributions (both my opinions and my requests for help/support) won't make or break this board. None of you know me, and I don't know you, but I have to be honest (this part of using my voice), this whole situation is making me SO SICK I COULD PUKE!
I'm sorry for you who have to attack, accuse, lie, re-victimize, dehumanize, degrade, etc. I thought, way back in Oct. of 2003 when I first joined under my original username, that I'd found a fairly safe place to ask for help, learn from people that were farther along in healing than me, maybe even try to support others....obviously I was wrong.
This has turned into one huge mud-slinging contest, and I am sorry for all of you - both the slingers and the ones that get hit with the mud - and also those who stand by and wonder what the HELL is going on here!
I thought this was a place to learn to HEAL for those of us who had been victimized by narcisists....lately tho, it seems like a place for some (and I'm not accusing anyone, because I have no proof nor a desire to accuse individuals) narcissists to play their games - maybe lack of supply in their own lives?
I really feel that I belong on a pro-narcissist board - at least they're honest there. I'm in no way accusing very member of "not playing well with othes" or creating abusive/offensive threads. What I'm saying is: I know it doesn't matter in the great scheme of things, but IMHO, this is getting just a BIT sick!
In addition, I think not becoming a member, and hiding behind "guest" or "anonymous" (again, I'm not singling out one person, because I know there are many "guests") is one of the most cowardly things I've witnessed here. If people have accustions, attacks, or even concerns about what's going on, step up and identify yourselves. Usernames aren't even real names, membership doesn't give any of us any private info about you....quit being chickenshit and put your money where your mouth is. It's so much easier to attack anonymously than to attack when you've identified yourselves, even with a made-up username.
bobbie
Anonymous:
Hi bobbie
In addition, I think not becoming a member, and hiding behind "guest" or "anonymous" (again, I'm not singling out one person, because I know there are many "guests") is one of the most cowardly things I've witnessed here. If people have accustions, attacks, or even concerns about what's going on, step up and identify yourselves. Usernames aren't even real names, membership doesn't give any of us any private info about you....quit being chickenshit and put your money where your mouth is. It's so much easier to attack anonymously than to attack when you've identified yourselves, even with a made-up username.
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I can see you're affected by this. I imagine a lot here are. I am too! :( But to attack all guests as 'chicken shit' . Thanks :( . A bit like kicking the dog don't you think?
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