Their modus operandi is to nag, annoy and deflect attention from others to themselves rather than making room for members who are voiceless (as defined by Dr. Grossman) and need a soft place to fall and a place to be heard.
Exactly, I did not log onto the board today to endure the exact same nonsense as yesterday.
I understood that this board was, is, for those who wish to heal - in their own way, and not be picked on, and nit picked, simply because they don't do their healing in the same way as someone else feels that they ought to. Or because they are working on the same subject as another.
So much time, energy and resources are simply wasted, when instead, one could be getting on with the business of healing, support, and growth -- the purpose of voicelessness.
There are some people in lurk land who desire to post but are holding back because of what they see being carried out here, all of which is fruitless.
We are each of us different, unique individuals, we are not cloned.
Our healing journey is applicable to our life experience - at the hands of those who have sent us here! My life experience is not necessarily the same as another and likewise.
Life is too short, as I know, having been to a funeral recently, of a lovely lady of integrity who slipped away in her sleep, who had a zest for life, and was young.
Live and Let Live .......... and don't concern oneself with how someone is posting, writing, or working through their healing with a particular method of therapy or books that suits the person!
The board is about each individual feeling free and safe to express, share, ask and discuss. Not whose posting and sharing whatever right now, or made a spelling mistake, surely?
Love to ((((((((( everyone ))))))))) Leah
