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Certain Hope

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Re: It was wrong of me to diagnose - but I stand behind my instincts....
« Reply #15 on: June 11, 2008, 05:46:01 PM »
Sorry.... feel like I'm barging in, but I wanted to ask Bean...

did you leave your job for good? Somehow, had it in my head that you were taking a break... a sabbatical of sorts.

And I'm sorry that I didn't pay more attention the first time I heard it, Bean.

And I wish you well... in the midst of all this other stuff, I lost sight of what a difficult time this must be for you.

Love,
Carolyn

Certain Hope

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Re: It was wrong of me to diagnose - but I stand behind my instincts....
« Reply #16 on: June 11, 2008, 08:21:49 PM »
(((((((((Bean)))))))))   you are still one of the most courageous, determined individuals I have ever encountered.

Love,
Carolyn

Gabben

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Re: It was wrong of me to diagnose - but I stand behind my instincts....
« Reply #17 on: June 11, 2008, 08:22:48 PM »
(((Bean)))

In prayers.

If you would ever like to talk about your pain and the story please do...I would be all ears.

Lise

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Re: It was wrong of me to diagnose - but I stand behind my instincts....
« Reply #18 on: June 11, 2008, 09:50:41 PM »
bean I am sorry to hear about the job, though hoping it will turn out to be one of those blessings in disguise.  I have read your posts about the difficulties with the exboss and coworkers stuck in the middle and it sounded like a really difficult work environment. 

Just wanted to chime in and wish good things for you.
Character, which has nothing to do with intellect or skill, can evolve only by increasing our capacity to love, and to become lovable. - Joan Grant

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Re: It was wrong of me to diagnose - but I stand behind my instincts....
« Reply #19 on: June 11, 2008, 10:45:56 PM »
I'm sorry it so hard to get away from abusive relationships, bean.

::sending you healing thoughts for strength and recovery::

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Re: It was wrong of me to diagnose - but I stand behind my instincts....
« Reply #20 on: June 17, 2008, 07:45:15 AM »
(((((((((((Bean))))))))))             Love   Ami


You have grown so much since I first met you, Bean. It does sound really scary, but exhilerating, too, like  sky diving. I admire you so much for your strength, Bean. May you find peace and blessings as you go forward.    Love   Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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Re: It was wrong of me to diagnose - but I stand behind my instincts....
« Reply #21 on: June 17, 2008, 02:16:34 PM »

I'm letting go of my desire or need for others to see me as self-assured and "without," which is somewhat ironic when you consider that speaking my truth has left me feeling better and calmer but appearing less "without" to others, I'm sure (note that I've told everyone I've come across who will listen that I had a panic attack due to HR's response last week and prior to this, when I reported the bullying, and have subsequently gone on medical leave.  HR "investigated" and concluded the problem was poor communication not bullying or harassment).   



Dear Bean,

That need to be seen it runs deep for me as well. I too have found that when I am honest there is no social anxiety...it is as if the slights of manipulation in me are what produce my anxiety.

It sounds to me that you may be suffering from PTSD -- bullying is a form of psychological terrism...deep down that is exactly what bullies are trying to do..terrorize us by using our weakness's against us as well as our fears.

That terror produces some physically painful results, for me I experienced chest pain, I did not eat or sleep very well which made me more sensitive and emotional as well as it is a kind of torture to not sleep or eat.

Anyways...I am rambling. I am glad to you see you back here.

Hugs to you as you navigate your way to a new improved and safe happy job...as well as through your continued healing.

Lise