Good Questions to Ask (Yourself) Before Posting if you wish

[Lupita]

Thank you Izz. I do believe that Dandy "should" put her heart at guard. Not give it to just any friend. I dont want to see her hurt again. When you bring a friend to your group of friends, you never know what is going to happen. It is similar analogy to cosigne for a lone for somebody else.

I hope that our dear Dansy does not so-signe for another loan "friend".

Maybe it is not a good advise.

Wayne Dyer would say, "be flexible, like palm trees in a storm, they survive because theu bind over  with the wind. Stiffness is in cadavers, stiffness is death, and when you are not flexible you dye". A paradogical thing.

I am 52 and opening my eyes and sorry ofr my mom who will live in darkness forever and ever.

Dear Dandy, against Wayne Dyer I will advise you to keep your heart on guard.

LOL

My love to you.

[Certain Hope]

I hope you'll be able to smooth it over without covering it up, Dandy.  Good friends like that are hard to find and worth keeping.

Best wishes to you!

Carolyn

[Lupita]

Hi Dandy, where have you been, I miss you. This conversation s becoming extremely interesting and important for me too. Please, let us continue. This was so similar to many of mine too.

Let us know what heppend. How situation developed.

Love to you

[dandylife]

Hey, Lupita!
Well, my friend had a housewarming party Sunday so I got to see her again. I brought her some pretty begonias for her garden, and a pretty maternity top for her "condition!" And I just told her how happy I was and that I hoped she was feeling well. She absolutely loved the top and raved about it and gave me a huge hug.

I am with ShameSlayer on this one - and Carolyn as well, I think in that it's not worth throwing a shadow on things - time to move on. I suspect Carolyn is right in that she probably thought the men shared, so I must know as well. I never did think of it from her point of view - that she was waiting for some congrats from me and never got it!!!!!!

So, full circle - if I were to use my own questions in my original post on this thread - I would have to ask myself - what is it I expect? An apology? I wouldn't require that, but it would be nice to just hear her say - I was SURE you knew!

Does that make sense?

She really is a sweetheart and a wonderful friend and it would be out of character for her to slight me.

Me thinks I'm being too sensitive in this case!

Dandylife

[Certain Hope]

(((((Dandy))))) I am so happy for you.

She also may be just so beside herself with her news... whew, I remember those early days, with hormones all a'flurry.

You are a good friend, imo.

Carolyn

[dandylife]

Thank you.

You, too!

((((Carolyn))))


Dandylife