Author Topic: Besee is gone ?  (Read 1907 times)

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Besee is gone ?
« on: June 30, 2008, 08:25:50 PM »

  I checked a couple of times in the Members list, but unless I'm not seeing it, it looks like besee has deleted her membership.

  Besee, if you ever check in just to read, I just want to tell you I'll miss you, and I enjoyed the times when you did post.  I wish I 
  would have had a little more time with you, I would have liked being able to dicuss a little more of what you wrote about your mom.

  Thank you for your kindnesses to me, and I hope your IC gets that pony, and you find your hearts desires.

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Re: Besee is gone ?
« Reply #1 on: June 30, 2008, 08:27:39 PM »
Oh don't you hate it when people delete themselves?  Maybe she changed her name.  I did that....my name used to be kellydckm...........but it was too easy to identify.  Besee could have changed her name...
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Re: Besee is gone ?
« Reply #2 on: June 30, 2008, 08:39:45 PM »

  I think when people delete their memberships it's because they're doing what they feel they need to do for various reasons.

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Re: Besee is gone ?
« Reply #3 on: June 30, 2008, 08:50:25 PM »
But I signed on in 2004 and seriously stopped posting and reading for months at a time.  It didn't matter.  When I got back I just reintroduced myself..
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Re: Besee is gone ?
« Reply #4 on: June 30, 2008, 08:52:45 PM »
I deleted mine once. Came back shortly afterward and just made a new account with the same name.

Back then, I had issues with feeling trapped... and needing to run.
This place has cured that... but it has surely not been pain-free.

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Re: Besee is gone ?
« Reply #5 on: June 30, 2008, 08:56:07 PM »
 
  I hear you Kelly, and I think it's cool that you did, and it seems like you to just take up again and not miss too many beats.  I guess you might be saying that we can always hope the same with Besee ?

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Re: Besee is gone ?
« Reply #6 on: June 30, 2008, 09:01:29 PM »
Yeah....that is my hope......if not, it is a shame..........
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Re: Besee is gone ?
« Reply #7 on: July 01, 2008, 04:39:32 AM »


I do think it is a matter of how Besee was treated here on board most recently, is the reason.

I am so sad to know that Besee has gone, but I am not surprised.

Leah x


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Re: Besee is gone ?
« Reply #8 on: July 01, 2008, 10:52:46 AM »
Wasn't that long ago, that Besee pleasantly surprised me on one of my threads...

Way I remember it, she was using a library computer... was trying to buy a car... so it's possible she's just taking an extended break.
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Re: Besee is gone ?
« Reply #9 on: July 01, 2008, 12:33:34 PM »


Hi Amber,

Besee has deleted all her postings, and account.  There is a thread remaining that may explain wherein she awaited a response, with perhaps an apology, however, seemingly she may have been simply ignored.

About 2 weeks ago.

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Re: Besee is gone ?
« Reply #10 on: July 01, 2008, 12:53:33 PM »
Besee has always been one of my all time favorite board members. I remember her quote when I first came on the board,"I not tired, I am just tired of giving in" Rosa Parks. I hope Besee will come back.                 Ami
 
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