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Hopalong

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Hopeless catching up
« on: July 30, 2008, 11:21:01 PM »
I'm sorry guys, I really have gotten behind in reading.
I'd like to say I'm hopping in and out and just generally awed by the level of growth that seems to be happening with so many of us in leaps and bounds.

Maybe there's just a tipping point and a surge of healing that happens here...sure looks like it!

But I'm sure there is pain and there are losses that I've missed seeing, and I am sorry. Sending love.

I've been preoccupied with getting over my trip (took about a week of extra sleeping), crazy-busy work, rewarming friendship (but at a new distance) with the gardener which has been good and healing, and most recently, shock and grief over the shooting at our church in Knoxville. A maddened man who read right-wing books and loathed liberals and gay people.

So a liberal church that asserts gay rights was a target for him.

A very tragic event that's still reverberating. We had a compassion service with our weeping interim minister who happens to have just moved here from Tennessee. Tonight I took 20 yards of black fabric and did a mourning drape over our church sign. I've been reading many blogs, they are heartwarming and moving. We are a small denomination but we're getting messages from many countries.

It's also a chilling thing. "I guess it's open season on Unitarians" my friend said. I saw a "Liberal Hunting Season" sign on the Net... This country's gone so very far off course.

Anyway, sort of preoccupied with all that, but wanted to pop in and send some love.

much to all of you,
Hops  PS--here's a wonderful link: http://firedoglake.com/2008/07/29/knoxville-tragedy-redeemed-by-heroism/#Respond
« Last Edit: July 30, 2008, 11:53:19 PM by Hopalong »
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Lupita

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Re: Hopeless catching up
« Reply #1 on: July 31, 2008, 11:39:52 AM »
Welcome back Hopsy, I missed you a lot.

God bless!

Lupita

sKePTiKal

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Re: Hopeless catching up
« Reply #2 on: July 31, 2008, 01:41:56 PM »
Hops, we've certainly missed you! And I surely understand that sometimes real life takes precedence; that 3-D people need each other in person when something this horrible and tragic happens.

Glad to have you back with your calm, your caring... your wisdom.
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debkor

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Re: Hopeless catching up
« Reply #3 on: July 31, 2008, 03:03:28 PM »
SS,

... I am deeply sorry...I have no words..except.. I don't understand.. it makes no sense..and I went quiet...in the last two weeks  I am still trying to make sense, with no sense, over a friend who's son was murdered, by his, life long school mate...shot in the head.. along with another friend who's life was taken also...a young girl..in North Carolina  hardly new him....Families suffering...2 little children left with no father now....

I do care.. I just... don't know.. I feel the need to be quiet....It makes no damn sense.. any of it...and I can only say I am sorry.. for all...I have no words...I don't know what to say...but I do care..

It was only a 2 or 3 weeks after they sat at my MIL's funeral... to not know.. they would be attending the sons.... a 23 year old man..a week short of his 24th birthday and buried on the day he came into this world...

I am sorry.. I'm just quiet...

Love
Deb


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Re: Hopeless catching up
« Reply #4 on: July 31, 2008, 03:06:06 PM »
Hops,

And I have missed you...

Love
Deb

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Re: Hopeless catching up
« Reply #5 on: August 01, 2008, 01:24:00 AM »
Gosh Debkor - that is so imponderable.  A son - murdered - by a friend - at such an age.  And children without a father - well - my little boy often cries about the father he never knew.  I know all too well the pain of fatherless children -

There are times that the world seems to be caving in.  As I came online tonight I saw the horror story on CNN that a man on a Canadian  Greyhound killed and decapitated a sleeping seatmate.  I cannot even process this.

Too much violence - too much residual pain - too inhuman to process.

sKePTiKal

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Re: Hopeless catching up
« Reply #6 on: August 01, 2008, 11:55:29 AM »
I find I really need to limit my exposure to this kind of news. It truly affects me that much.
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Re: Hopeless catching up
« Reply #7 on: August 01, 2008, 04:41:54 PM »
Hi Hoppy-

Sorry that youn have been hurt by that news - I sometimes cannot bear to  hear certain newscasts and understand your reaction and concern for our country and its people.

Glad that you had a lovely trip and connected with firends and loved ones, and got out of the rut, made a new peace with the Gardener. You deserve good times, and more will be coming...

Love,

Changing