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mudpuppy

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Victory (partial anyway)
« on: September 05, 2008, 09:51:58 PM »
Haven't given any updates lately, but have something to report.
As some may know I have been entangled with a sibling in court for a good long time. A few years back we sued him for intentional infliction of emotional distress. Today at a settlement conference as the trial drew near, he capitulated unexpectedly with an agreement to a judgement admitting to every single one of our allegations in return for a zero dollar judgement. While we have, IMO, sustained huge monetary damages and we, by agreeing to this are not conceding we had no monetary damages, that was never what it was primarily about. It was about justice and either the admission by him or the judgement of a jury that what he has done is outrageous and beyond the bounds of decency. With this judgement today I can finally present to any person who might listen to him, a court decision, that he admitted what was done was intended to inflict emotional distress on us, was so outrageous as to be unacceptable in a civilized society, that he threatened to give false testimony, that he withheld documents from litigation, that he left threatening phone messages on our answering machine and much more. Never again do I have to listen to people  in my family defending him without being able to push a copy of his admission of what he did right up their noses.
We are still in court on a few property issues in which I believe we have an even stronger case so it aint over. But so far we're two for two and this viindication will only make the next ones easier.
 Take heart, anyone stuck in court with a person like this; stick it out and you'll win. Not gauranteed of course but more likely than not. Like 99 things out of 100 just show up and persevere and you'll win.

mud
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Re: Victory (partial anyway)
« Reply #1 on: September 05, 2008, 10:47:18 PM »
CONGRATULATIONS, MUD!  :D

This is such great news.

WOO-HOO for you!

(Can we lock our respective tormentors in a kennel together and leave 'em there?)

I spent last weekend writing an 11-page rebuttal to an astonishingly vicious slew of allegations.
I am really heartened to hear this.

Except my pockets have holes in them.

Yay anyway,
Hops
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Re: Victory (partial anyway)
« Reply #2 on: September 05, 2008, 11:37:22 PM »



Hi Mud,

Great news.  I'm happy for your victory.

tt

lighter

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Re: Victory (partial anyway)
« Reply #3 on: September 06, 2008, 06:35:45 PM »
Thanks for that update, Mud.

I'm amazed that you have your brother admitting his egregious behavior towards you.

How do you think your difficult family members will deal with that admission and do you think he'll manage to explain this away?

In any case, congrats and good luck on the other two cases.

Light


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Re: Victory (partial anyway)
« Reply #4 on: September 06, 2008, 11:54:22 PM »
Esteemed Mud-

Congratulations on your hard-won victory. Your experience and willingness to intelligently and honestly share and help others has been of great value to many engaged in legal battles with people of your brother's ilk. Your understnding and ability to communicate the dynamics involved has been invaluable on many levels. It is good to know that you have prevailed as you deserved to do.

I join my good friend Miss Lighter in wishing you good fortune in resolving any remaining issues. Thank you again for sharing this wonderful news!

Best To You And Yours,

Changing

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Re: Victory (partial anyway)
« Reply #5 on: September 08, 2008, 09:08:00 AM »
(((((((((((((((((((((mud))))))))))))))))))))))

I am so glad to hear that your NSib was forced to cough up his admission of guilt. Amazing that they will sell their souls out for money (essentially what he did). I am sure he doesn't feel he did anything wrong, but, as you said, you have his statement now to show that he has admitted to the activities. What a pinworm.
Thanks for sharing, and I am very happy for you, mud.
Love, Beth
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mudpuppy

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Re: Victory (partial anyway)
« Reply #6 on: September 08, 2008, 11:06:16 AM »
Thanks guys. Since I'm still in court let me emphasize I have merely stated certain facts and opinions and have made no characterization of any person, including my sibling.

mud

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Re: Victory (partial anyway)
« Reply #7 on: September 08, 2008, 01:49:55 PM »
But I can call him a bunghole  :lol:
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