No feeling bad! I have a whole list (teeth, eyes, ears, skin) of checks I need to get done. Tedious. Especially to find a new dentist. My long-term clinic (university based) had some retirements and short staffing to cope with so I was just assigned a new dentist, and after two meetings I don't want him. Nothing nefarious, he just has zero chairside manners and I confess I need to be greeted like a person, not a mouth. He's in such a rush that I can barely grasp the procedure as he dashes off to the Next Thing. He actually dashes behind the chair the second he comes in without eye contact or a convincing hello. I'm sure he has reasons, just doesn't work w/me.
I asked for a transfer to a more seasonsed dentist in the same practice and the manager (via receptionist) said I'm not allowed. I have to see him or nobody. I didn't like that, so emailed the chairman my polite confusion. I thought 2nd opinions (about a long and expensive rebuild of a bridge, with another tooth sacrifice) were a respected part of medicine? Pfftt. I never really blame staff or doctors though, just the situation.
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