Something Sweet

[Stormchild]

Thank you Hope.

Addition to that list: I already have a PI. Yes, that's a private investigator; I used him to check on some very rowdy rude neighbors, about a year ago. I will be calling him again, if things progress in any way.

Sad, isn't it, the things that we have to do as adults that were never even on the horizon when we were young.

Note to Hops: Called Borders, ordered book.

[Certain Hope]

   Wish I'd had my own P.I. !!!  You go, Stormy!


Hugs,
Hope

[Stormchild]

Oh... the sense of perplexity is because he was nervous. Bless his soul, he did hang in there, but he was definitely nervous.

Ns, at least the ones I've known, and abusers, at least the ones I've known, generally haven't been nervous. Au contraire, they playas, they be smooth and cool as ice. And it has all too often fooled me.

So I'm as perplexed at myself, in this instance, as at him. Because I, oddly, wasn't nervous at all, and always in the past, I have been.

Edit in: Note to self: consider changing sig line to "too soon old, too late smart."

[Brigid]

Hi Storm,
I'm glad the first meeting was pleasurable, even tho the gentleman was a little nervous, but it's good that you were cool as a cucumber.

One other tip if you are not already aware (or maybe your state doesn't allow for it), but here we can access the circuit court website for the entire state and find out if the person has been involved in any legal situations which have involved the court system.  It helps to track divorce proceedings as well.  I found it difficult to find by searching and eventually just called a lawyer friend for the web address.  I have used it quite often.

I hope you can have some fun.  You deserve it.

Hugs,

Brigid