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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #945 on: December 29, 2007, 07:32:09 PM »
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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #946 on: December 30, 2007, 09:43:07 AM »
Take your time, let your body heal, Bones...

hope you soon feel better...

I know you have to get back to the paycheck,
but hope you can control the pace when you do.

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Thanks, Hops.

I'm trying to pace myself while I'm at work and it's not easy.

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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #947 on: December 30, 2007, 09:45:04 AM »
Hello My Friend-

I hope you are better, poor thing. The symptoms seem to linger...I am finally over this  "thing" and it makes tremendous difference! (((((Bonesy))))) Best to you for a healthy weekend and a Happy New Year!

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Thanks, Changing.

This has been going on for nearly a month and I'm tired of feeling sick all the time.

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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #948 on: December 30, 2007, 09:46:08 AM »
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Thanks, Ami.

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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #949 on: December 30, 2007, 12:56:06 PM »
Bones,

Hope you are feeling better with the new year approaching....take care.

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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #950 on: December 31, 2007, 01:33:16 PM »
Bones,

Hope you are feeling better with the new year approaching....take care.

Thanks.  I'm still dealing with this lingering cough.

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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #951 on: December 31, 2007, 02:15:59 PM »
Are you sure it hasn't turned into something you need medical help with?  My BIL get's pneumonia about once a year.  A friend get's bronchitis.  They always hold out then go to the doctor when they're really sick. 

Hope you feel better soon..... a month's a long time to be sick: /

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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #952 on: December 31, 2007, 02:31:37 PM »
Are you sure it hasn't turned into something you need medical help with?  My BIL get's pneumonia about once a year.  A friend get's bronchitis.  They always hold out then go to the doctor when they're really sick. 

Hope you feel better soon..... a month's a long time to be sick: /

Thanks, Lighter.

I've already been to the doctor and recently finished up my antibiotics.

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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #953 on: December 31, 2007, 02:33:49 PM »
Sorry I missed it, Bones.

What did he say you have.... and how can you be sure it's gone?


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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #954 on: January 03, 2008, 12:22:09 PM »
Sorry I missed it, Bones.

What did he say you have.... and how can you be sure it's gone?



I have my voice back.  I'm trying to give this cough a little while longer to clear up.

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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #955 on: January 04, 2008, 11:37:34 AM »
I went back to work at the homeless shelter this past Sunday and encountered a bit of frustration.

Our policies are quite clear about what we are allowed to do and not allowed to do.  One example is that I do not clean up messes that clients make.  They are adults and are responsible to clean up their own messes.  On New Year's Day one client arrived at the shelter, so intoxicated, that she made a mess in the bathroom.  I was in the middle of conducting an intake interview with another client when one of the volunteers approached me and attempted to tell me to stop doing the interview and clean up this other client.  I politely declined.  (I spoke with my supervisor and she backed me up.  My boss was appalled that a volunteer would attempt to do that to me.)  Then, on Wednesday evening a client, who had the ENTIRE day to fill her prescription, wanted someone else to take care of it for her, which staff cannot do.  The same volunteer who attempted to order me to clean up another client attempted to order me to take the client to the pharmacy.  I explained that policy forbids that.  The volunteer demanded that one of our drivers transport the client.  Again, I explained that policy forbids that.  Then, the volunteer announced that she would arrange for one of the group of volunteers to transport the client in one of their personal vehicles.  I told her that policy does not allow that because of liability issues.  (That volunteer was NOT happy with me because I DARED to say the word "NO" to her!)  She called my boss Thursday morning to register a complaint about me because I was "uncooperative".  Sheesh!!!!!

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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #956 on: January 04, 2008, 11:43:31 AM »
Sounds very frustrating. 

Consider the source of the complaint and try to stay focused on the important things, if you can.

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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #957 on: January 04, 2008, 11:49:22 AM »
Sounds very frustrating. 

Consider the source of the complaint and try to stay focused on the important things, if you can.

The situation made me wonder if the complainer is an N because she viewed me as "difficult" for refusing her orders.  She was also giving other colleagues of mine the "evil eye" because they also refused to obey her orders.  (She doesn't get it that she does not sign our paychecks and it is NOT her place to order us around.  She is supposed to work with her group of volunteers while the paid staff do our jobs.)

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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #958 on: January 04, 2008, 02:47:02 PM »
Dear Bones,
  I am sorry for your struggles at work. I hope that they work themselves out in a good way,Bones. I am thinking of you, friend.
  How is b/f , BTW?                                 Love  Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Lost My Job and Doubting Myself
« Reply #959 on: January 05, 2008, 04:45:56 PM »
Dear Bones,
  I am sorry for your struggles at work. I hope that they work themselves out in a good way,Bones. I am thinking of you, friend.
  How is b/f , BTW?                                 Love  Ami

My supervisor backed me up regarding this difficult volunteer.  The group is moving to a new church on Sunday so I'll be dealing with a new group of volunteers this coming week.

B/F is still around.  He's trying to help me deal with a mess when my upstairs neighbor's pipes ruptured.  I told B/F I need a wet-vac to get the water out of my wall-to-wall carpeting.  His response?  He shows up with multiple rolls of paper towels.  He doesn't get it!

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