Author Topic: Why I can't help here  (Read 1212 times)

SoSmall

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Why I can't help here
« on: September 14, 2007, 12:57:37 AM »
I received sooo much help and support when i began posting on here.  I knew I wanted to repay and help.  But the thing is ... I can't spend the time thinking about my parents and sister.  It is sooo painful that it is just best for me to block it out as much as possible.  I have dealt with it.  But since the resolve isn't what I want - I don't know if I will ever be ok with it.  It just is what it is. 

but coming on here - it just reminds me of a hurt to unbearable.   :(  Just knowing something in my life is so debilitating makes me sad.  That I can't even come in here to help others b/c it overwhelmes me. 


gratitude28

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Re: Why I can't help here
« Reply #1 on: September 14, 2007, 07:23:06 AM »
sosmall,
Thanks for sharing that. It is completely understandable. Maybe you can find a way to give somewhere else - at an animal shelter or someplace that feels safe to you.
Please take care and come here anytime ou need support.
Love, Beth
"There is a theory which states that if ever anyone discovers exactly what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable." Douglas Adams

Ami

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Re: Why I can't help here
« Reply #2 on: September 14, 2007, 07:42:42 AM »
Dear SoSmall,
  I think that it might be the right thing for you to just come and "receive".Say what you need to say and let us care  for you.                                             Love   Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung