There's a big children's charity in the UK that do letters from Father Christmas. My mum sends one to my son via this organisation each year - it's from Santa, of course, so I can't 'do' anything it. That's how she sees it. It got here very late this year, I thought that it wasn't going to happen. I've emailed the charity, explaining that the letter comes from the wife of the man who sexually abused me and that I find her sending this to my son via a charity that claims to help protect children rather disturbing, and I've asked them if there's anyway of flagging it up on the system so she can't do it again. Nothing more I can do but it made me feel physcially sick. I'm trying to 'process' more where my step-dad is concerned at the mo so am feeling quite urgh about him at the moment anyway. I wouldn't even mind if she sent him a Christmas card but it's the anonymous sneaking around that bothers me - nothing is ever in the open, as it is, obvious and there, it's always hidden, sneaky, stuff you can't directly deal with. Yuck.
