Author Topic: No narcissism here......  (Read 800 times)

Ales2

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No narcissism here......
« on: September 01, 2018, 06:47:20 PM »
Just read this story.  I will have to read the book!

https://nypost.com/2018/09/01/my-mom-forced-me-to-get-married-while-my-dad-was-dying/

Ouch. Painful.

Hopalong

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Re: No narcissism here......
« Reply #1 on: September 01, 2018, 06:56:52 PM »
Remarkable story.
I don't know whether the mother was an N or just a woman of her generation who had lived with the visceral consequences of a drunk husband for so many years that something rose up within her that said, Life! LIFE will go on, even if he discards his!

I'm going to Portugal! I accept that I cannot control this but I can claim joy anyway!

Our family wedding is going to happen regardless! I will NOT let his alcoholism change everything!

The way I took the story was that the mother was experiencing a very personal loss, rebellion and whatever else...not so much that she was an N.

Could be wrong though.

xo
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