I try to contain my emotional responses to things like now; they're totally unnecessary to solving the problem. They make me feel like crap, usually... and kinda puts other people on the spot too.
Doesn't always happen, mind you! I can just be having a bad day, full of obstacles and frustration. But if I can stay in my logical thought process without letting my ego have space to be indignant over the incident... it ends up, problem solved and like nothing ever happened.
On the other hand, I called the 800 number for a service that is very secure in their log-in credentialling. I wanted to change my home phone number from the old one - which was a broadband powered landline - but to verify my identity from this device, they wanted to text me a code to a number that didn't exist and couldn't receive a text anyway.
When I called that number, I heard a whole series of sales pitches for things I wasn't interested in and when I finally got through to what I thought was a human being, started saying "I'm not interested" "I don't want that" "I just need help logging in to the website". To no avail. I hung up because the sales pitches were ENDLESS and not at all "helpful".
The problems I'm having lately are all related to the ipad. If I switch to a PC, no problems.
I really don't want to do it, but I think I'm going to end up completely redesigning my tech situation around here. I've gotten a new security application for the PCs and it's exactly performing as advertised. That's rare in the tech world. Even the phone is going to get replaced with something that's not so "smart" - since ALL the snafus and irritating messages/notifications are from things I simply don't use the phone for.
But yeah, most of my devices are going on anywhere from 5-10 years old and the PCs are running an OS that's end of life very soon. The ipad, the kindle... are from the first few generations and can't be upgraded past their current state. Talk about planned obsolesence.