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Mindfulness and codependence thread
lighter:
Not sure what happened, but the Cowgirl's car showed up, not sure when.
I did leave her to herself, not sure if Cowboy home or not.
My sister saw Cowgirl running in and out of the house, frantically, as if in a trance, after dark.... every light in the house on.
Not sure what that was about, but I don't think Cowboy is home.
I'd like to know if Cowboy drops into gun threat mode. Not gonna lie about that.
Lighter
lighter:
Cowboy's still living his break with reality.
In the street chat, Cowgirl said Cowboy comes and goes without telling her his schedule, running off their contractors in the middle of a bathroom and flooring job.
They're on radio silence, otherwise.
Lighter
lighter:
Today I had a wonderful feeling of freedom on the drive home. I didn't feel an inch involved in the upcoming Cowboy mess and it felt wonderful.
I also released a heavy feeling around a friend's family member need for an attorney. I didn't cause it, I won't be the one to fix it. Sending good thoughts is about all I need to do in that situation. Same with another friend's brothers' situations with their wives and In Laws. Not my circus, certainly not my clowns.
Whew dam hoo.
Hopalong:
HOO back, Lighter!
You are being so conscious and aware and deliberate.
I am awed.
And way less deliberate. (Will kvetch on another thread tomorrow.)
Bravo, you.
hugs
Hops
lighter:
I'm in the yard and just saw what I think is pregnant Cowboy DIL go by with an unfamiliar large Golden Retriever.... she turned into the Cowboy's drive way 5 minutes before Cowgirl drove into the driveway. I assume it's coodinated, as I never see DIL go there by herself and this is a first she's been with that big dog.
Ahhhh and the son just drove by in his truck, so this is coordinated.
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