Have been thru hell with ex Now seeking help!

[mum]

Cadbury: I think you are doing an amazing job keeping clear of your ex, especially while you are pregnant.  Please protect your child as well from this man as best you can...having to share a child with a screwed up person is tough, but it sounds like you've got a handle on things.
And the list is a great idea....it did remind me of that rubber band thing, too!
I've decided to do it again,  but this time, it's for everytime I obsess about something going wrong....or maybe I will eat chocolate every time I think of something going right (oh, wait, I do that).
On a more serious note: your post was heartfelt and I imagine, very helpful. Bless both you and the original poster.

[Anonymous]

If you really do not want this person to have access to your child you can write "father unknown" on the birth registration.  It might make you look loose but it will protect your child.  He would have to petition a court for an order to obtain DNA and pay for all of that, as well as the testing (which is very expensive), in order to proove paternity.

The chances of him wasting His time is very low.