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Stormchild

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« on: March 16, 2005, 09:43:28 AM »
Looks like a good time to start a thread about how animals have comforted us and how we have loved them in return. I won't start now, I have to run, but I'd love to see more here from Portia and Brigid and mum and October and Longtire and everyone else, pleeeeease? [more critter lovers added on edit but I know I missed some of you, i'm in a hurry]

(There's a speckled Sophie girl curled up in her little bed under my desk as I type this, with one paw holding her nose. C'mon, Sophe, my writing doesn't stink that much, does it?)

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« Reply #1 on: March 16, 2005, 10:39:50 AM »
I got my cat from the pound when he was just a kitten.  While all the other kittens were only interested in biting your fingers, this kitten just wanted to be held.  I put him on my shoulder and he started walking across my back from shoulder to shoulder.  When I put him down, he cried and cried.  I knew he was the right one for me and it felt like I found a soulmate.

When he was little, he used to sleep curled up in a ball on my chest as I sat in the recliner watching TV.  Later he got very demanding :D and expects his chin and head to be rubbed whenever he feels like it.  He has more personality than any other cat I've ever seen (must get that from me!).  He has an amazing ability to communicate his mood and desires with his facial expression and body language.  He knows when he is supposed to get his snack and meows loudly until I give it to him.  Sometimes he gets confused and thinks EVERY day is snack day, though.  He has the loudest purr I've ever hear.  You can hear it clear across the room!

The best thing about him is that when I was in the depths of depression, he DIDN'T CARE.  He came to me every day demanding his chin to be rubbed and his head scratched.  He didn't care what kind of day I had or how I was feeling.  He came and expressed his need, then purred loudly to let me know he was happy when I gave it to him.  Talk about simplicity and directness in a relationship!  He will start to purr now if I just walk into the room, even if someone else is holding him and he wasn't happy before that.  He hasn't really pulled his wieght at home, and seems to think he is head of the household.  But, I love him anyway.
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« Reply #2 on: March 16, 2005, 03:26:12 PM »
Thanks for starting this Stormchild.  I'm sure I have a few stories to share.

 
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He has more personality than any other cat I've ever seen (must get that from me!).


Longtire,

We should get him together with my orange tabby who I think has more personality than any cat I've ever known.  He was also rescued from the Humane Society (as were all my cats) as a kitten.  When he was little, he would play hide and seek with my son.  I eventually had to get him a playmate because he tormented my poor 10-year-old English Setter and chewed on her lips (and then would curl up next to her belly to sleep).  We have pictures of him inside of any kind of box, playhouse, cabinet, etc., that he could fit into, with his paws batting outside the enclosure.  

He senses my needing of a friend and curls up in my lap whenever its available.  He also rules the roost around here at least where the cats are concerned and he has me as a member of his well-trained staff.  (dogs have owners, cats have staff!)  He is not at all shy about expressing his desire for food or attention and will pull on your arm until you pet him.

My only female cat idolizes him and will sleep as close to him as she can get as long as he will allow for it.  He is more tolerant of her in his older age, but still has to occasionally put her in her place (probably a real N).

Like Mum mentioned in the other thread, I am one of those who cannot see a stray domestic animal without stopping to rescue it.  Otherwise I would spend the rest of the day worrying that something bad would happen.

I never met a puppy or kitten that I didn't like and want to bring home.

I'll quit now and let someone else "talk."

Brigid

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« Reply #3 on: March 16, 2005, 10:18:35 PM »
(Does anyone else get paranoid with saying "real" names, even of pets or real locations etc?  Is it because I've been dragged through the mud in court....or that I think my ex will latch on to this site and ruin it for me?  That said....I feel funny telling animal names.  forgive me)

It's tough for us animal lovers to pick out just one favorite animal experience to tell...they happen all day every day!  

So instead: a bit of a remembrance "list"

My childhood collie/shep: He was the tenth child as far as I was concerned. A year younger than me, he lived til age 15...he had epilepsy and I found him once at the corner drugstore surrounded by kids while having a siezure.  When it was over, he sure looked relieved to see me... loyal doesn't even describe my first best friend.  Hated all men, except my dad (early trauma?).

My first "child": a female golden retriever: Lovely, sweet, bossy girl. Like all goldens, orally fixated.  Had to remove all the water spigots or she would turn them on and play in water and mud all day (she never figured out to turn them off!  We live in the DESERT for goodness sake!)   Lived til she was 13,
I carried her in a sling around her middle for the last 10 months of her life when her back end became paralyzed. (the doggy wheelchair I bought scared her too much).

When I had my son, I stayed home a year, and above dog was so upset  I went back to work that she developed bad habits (jumping into my truck and peeing on the seat upon removal, throwing herself in front of the garden gate and not moving out of my way....)...so I got her a buddy.  Another golden (mixed with something larger).  She bossed him around, even though he was huge (after you, dear, whatever you say, dear).  I worried that he wouldn't be as good with the baby as the female, but the first day home from the pound, he allowed my son to cover him with towels and lay on him for a nap.  This dog used to try and catch balls with his paws!  He died at six when a hack vet over anesthetized him during a routine teeth cleaning (three other people I know had the same thing happen....same vet).

We got another pal for our female golden... and I still have him.  Pound dog, but sure looks like a pure bred flat coated retriever (a long haired black retriever).  The sweetest boy on the planet. Mellow always (except that time he tore apart my mattress when he was a pup).  He performed on stage in a dance concert once and was pretty good.  He "talks" and now that he is nine, pretty much cuddles all the time (except when keeping below dog in line)..Just the best dog ever.

When we finally lost our female golden, above black boy was pretty sad, I thought, so after a year we got our other current black boy, who looks just like him, except for a shorter snout, a double coat (I am told that gets him out of the pure bred catagory...like I care) and an obsessive compulsion for spots of light or shadow and television animals.  He needs a job (I think he may be part border collie....that might explain). He fetches mail and the paper (he taught himself).

So, except for an occasional gerbil the kids bring home from science class (we had one for almost FOUR years.....) those are my furry, "never go to school or dress or feed themselves", children.

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« Reply #4 on: March 16, 2005, 11:00:51 PM »
Great things about animals:

No college tuition to save for

no arguments over tattoos and/or body piercing and/or goth makeup, spiked Mohawks, etc. (studded leather collars, though, another story!)

no worries about gangs (packs, yes, but not gangs)

catnip isn't an illegal substance

they may wear fur, but if so they grow it themselves

when you say, Sit! Stay! they may actually OBEY you. :D  :D

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« Reply #5 on: March 16, 2005, 11:11:01 PM »
Stormchild,

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spiked Mohawks


Speak for yourself.  My English Setter has not been groomed for awhile so he is sporting quite a lovely mohawk at the moment.  He fortunately does not have access to the gel to give it a pointy top, but it sprouts off his head just the same.  That is on my to do list for this week (to give him a haircut that is).

Brigid

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« Reply #6 on: March 17, 2005, 08:16:32 AM »
Hi Stormchild and everyone. I’ve never chosen to have an animal at my own home. There were cats at the ‘parental home’ but I don’t feel it’s fair to have anyone where I live – tiny house, big fast roads. I collect stray dogs here, a lovely golden retriever came up one day, three small happy dogs bounded up once and started drinking from the bird bowl on the lawn, and a beautiful Alsatian arrived one night – lovely dog, I had no hesitation in getting right down to his face to talk to him. All these dogs went to the local dog warden within hours and I didn’t hear from any of the owners to say thanks for taking my dog off the streets. And they say we’re the higher species.

I like the wild visitors: four robins currently, a sparrow-hawk, far too many blackbirds, grey squirrels, hedgehogs. If I lived in the country and had enough room, I’d love to live with about five cats, two dogs, two pigs, maybe goats, a few chickens. Not sure what that would do to my eating habits! Would I get to killing my own food, or turn vegetarian? I really don’t know, could go either way I guess!

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« Reply #7 on: March 17, 2005, 10:31:58 AM »
Portia: my bet: you'd be a vegetarian.  I taught in a semi rural area once.  One of my 7th graders was crying....she told her her 4H steer won best in show at the county fair.  I didn't understand: it actually meant her steer that she hand raised as a pet, would now be butchered and advertised as prime meat in the newspaper advertisements (it happens each year here..." Miss Brody's Buddy", winner of this years's Fair, at $4 a lb for prime cuts")
NO lie!!
Reason # 345 not to eat meat. (for me....but I pass no judgement on those who do...to each his own, IMO)

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« Reply #8 on: March 17, 2005, 10:42:03 AM »
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Portia: my bet: you'd be a vegetarian.  I taught in a semi rural area once.  One of my 7th graders was crying....she told her her 4H steer won best in show at the county fair.  I didn't understand: it actually meant her steer that she hand raised as a pet, would now be butchered and advertised as prime meat in the newspaper advertisements (it happens each year here..." Miss Brody's Buddy", winner of this years's Fair, at $4 a lb for prime cuts")
NO lie!!
Reason # 345 not to eat meat. (for me....but I pass no judgement on those who do...to each his own, IMO)


Oh how horrible, my god that poor animal, that poor traumatized girl, how can she ever proudly display any creature she loves and has cared for again? [on edit: and how can she ever trust another adult, ever, to keep her loved ones SAFE?]

...I am not a vegetarian... I wish I were... when I exclude meat from my diet, I "fail to thrive" and become quite ill eventually. A paramedic I know (nice person, went to FL as a volunteer after the hurricanes) thinks it's a metabolic thing, my body can't make something I need, and meat's where I get my 'stock' from. So I try to do the Native American and !Kung thing, whenever I eat meat I thank the animal who sacrificed its life for me. That helps some, but it still bothers me. A lot, sometimes.

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« Reply #9 on: March 17, 2005, 11:35:25 AM »
This thread reminded me of something: my mother hates animals, all animals, but especially cats. Me I love all animals (well not spiders and mosquitoes so much, or any insects really, but I don't hate them). Has anyoen else noticed this in their N? I suppose having no empathy and no love they just don't see the point of them. Oh, I just remembered something my mother used to say about animals: "they are like children that never grow up". Concidering how she feels about animals, it sure says a lot about what she thinks of children!
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« Reply #10 on: March 17, 2005, 12:06:29 PM »
Actually, sleepyhead: my second husband loves dogs and he says: way better than children (what a jerk, I have kids)  But he had an Airedale who absolutely adored him....in one way, she was his interesting "arm candy" when a woman wasn't there...they are interesting dogs, but not horribly affectionate. My children and I were the ones who comforted her when she was dying, he would not even come home (2 hours away) because it would have screwed up a performance he was to do the next day.  She died without him (to his regret).
My N friend also has an Airedale.  Hmmmm, yet, and this may be contradictory: those same people HATE cats.  HATE them.  Are cats just not adoring enough?  Makes sense to me (I can't have cats, allergies)....cats, like children, need to be appreiciated for who they are...not what they will do for you.  Dogs tend to accept almost any attitude from humans and adore you almost no matter what.
My first husband and father of my kids "tolerates" dogs, but HATES cats.  
I mean HATES them.

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« Reply #11 on: March 17, 2005, 02:06:39 PM »
I think Ns hate cats because they are more difficult to 'psych out' in some ways than dogs.

Dogs are pack animals, so they respond very quickly to approval vs. disapproval, and Ns can pull their strings, poor puppies. This makes dogs so wonderful for families with young children - and so helpful as Seeing Eyes and so on. They need that appreciation, they need that love, they will tolerate the torments of hell to get it. God love them for their loyalty.

Cats are pride animals (nice pun there too) - they do associate in groups but more independently, the alpha thing is less strong, and they are more likely to avoid someone who isn't consistently loving, because going it alone if you have to is easier for cats than dogs. On the other hand, if loved and respected, cats bond to you like Crazy Glue. Which would also enrage an N, seeing as they probably can't get a bond like that.

[But one of my cats is as good as a Seeing Eye, she comes and yells at me whenever the kettle is boiling, or I'm not answering a ringing phone - she knows what's supposed to happen and she worries when it doesn't. Bright little thing. God-gift!]

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« Reply #12 on: March 17, 2005, 04:21:37 PM »
Comment from Sleepyhead's mother regarding pets:

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Isn't how many of us describe the N's in our lives?  Just a thought.

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« Reply #13 on: March 17, 2005, 04:53:19 PM »
Good one Brigid - they can't handle the competition, even with house cats.  :shock:  :shock:  :D  :D

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« Reply #14 on: March 17, 2005, 04:55:07 PM »
Reading these reminds me of something.  My brother has a dog, and it bites - mostly play, but it needs some kind of training, imo.  It is still a puppy, really, about five or six months, but even so ...

Anyway, last time my Nmum visited, it bit her hand.  Don't laugh!!!

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