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acapella and the other n-partners
bunny:
Nofights,
I agree that it is optimal to know one's limits and move on when necessary without explanation. That is what I attempted to do by leaving with one little goodbye post not giving specific reasons. My post would have been deleted instantly had I explained anything. However, sometimes a person has to stand up for themselves and not take a lot of crap. I try to pick my battles.
Jaded911:
Amen bunny!
I still have yet to understand what they feel was whiney about your goodbye post. Perhaps maybe the reason is because I think of my xN. He would have preferred I just go away and not ask any questions, not give my goodbyes to his daughter, never speak to anyone he knew again, that way it was less work for him. But ya know bunny. If I would have done that, I would have needed to evaluate myself as a person as well.
A goodbye is a goodbye. It is not an invitation to beat the bajeeby out of me, just wave goodbye and I will be gone. But you have to wonder wtf would make someone into what this has become.
Bunny when she told you that you were the one that caused this mess, she was demonstrating projection. Sound familiar?????? I went through it for 2 yrs. Maybe thats what jumped out at me bunnyherm. I listened to my gut this time, something I had been willing to let go before.
bunny:
Thanks, Jaded. I agree. I think "Tired" (aka Sand) is having some problems and is blaming me. I wonder what her followers would think if they saw her posts over here.
Jaded911:
Tired of the whining wrote:
you sound like a bunch of whining children because you didn't get your way. who's the n here? not sand.
Maybe there are whining children that are N but then again maybe those children are whining because of the N. Either way you look at that sentence, just because a child is whining does not mean they are N. That is only something their N parent would say to them.
Now correct me if I am wrong whine but wasnt it you that came to inform herm she was, how did you state that, oh ya, "besides the herm character gave blatantly wrong information. "
I would make sure I had my facts straight before I posted something about somebody else giving wrong information. Whiney kids does not mean they are N. Palease, when ya think you have seen it all, ya just give it a second and something tops the hell out of it. Just fagetaboutit, go eat dinner and hug your cat. I am going to hug my whiney children who are not N.
Jaded911:
Not a damn thing bunny. They would think exactly what they thought when she posted the last nasty bunch to you. They just do not care and ya know what I think about that, I do not care. I know one thing I do not regret having my own right to speak.
I am not saying everyone there is alike, I am only talking about the few who continue to prove me right about the N thing, you know, the horrible N word I mentioned. Hell proves I learned something after all. I knew how to spot the N behavior. Can I get a hell ya!!!!!!! Looks like I do know what to look out for when observing. I know this girl will not be a repeat offender on that N ride.
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