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acapella and the other n-partners
hope2003:
CC thank you for your support.
Lisa: I said this to your privately, but I think the others should understand as well. Your post on this board made reference to the "have a nice life" comment and you said that YOU said it. It was confusing. Obviously, you thought I was confused and you said that to me. I was referring to sandahl of course. Originally, I read your post and thoought you were Sandahl. Then I saw that you signed your name and I knew who it was. Echo wasn't around long enough to know all the players and their stories.
Finally, everyone should know that you posted a thread on the other board saying that your board was better off without us. You make some accusations which are exaggerated and don't apply to me. Please don't try to be my friend, ask me to come back, and then turn on me like that. I am responsible for what I say, not for what Mindy, Echo, Bunny or Bobbie say. Please don't lump us together.
Having said all that, your thread does make me wonder. I don't really feel that I can trust you with my feelings.
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: Nike ---
No "MISS PARANOID"....that's a bonafide question. You come on here accusing me of being Sandahl, hiding behind a facade and you know nothing about me.........I'll answer anything but dont even start to get hateful with me.
--- End quote ---
Just an observation here - no one likes to be accused of negative things, especially if they're innocent, and no one likes to be called names. I don't believe it's constructive to respond to an accusation using an attack with a derogatory, sarcastic name. I'd suggest if you object to the accusation, respond to that issue, but drop the name-calling. I can understand your emotion resulting from an accusation, but by not controlling it, it's pretty obvious this is going to escalate into a plain old bitch-session like the one that just happened, and I thought everyone wanted to avoid a repeat of that.
Nike, your offer to answer "anything" was great - if the questions are put in a civil way that doesn't discount anyone, and the answers are not aggressively defensive, a dialog could get going that might resolve the problem. However, I find it a bit amusing that you say "don't even start to get hateful with me" when you start your post with "no 'MISS PARANOID' " Does that make any sense?
On the other board, I think it was Sandahl herself who suggested not replying immediately to a post that gets the high emotions going. I think that's a good idea, to wait a while and calm down, but I've also been guilty many, many times of immediate, impulsive replies.
Well, we can always keep on working...
bobbie
I'm mine:
sorry, the post about accusations and name-calling was me, bobbie. i must have gotten timed out.
i've been having so much trouble logging in and staying logged in on this board. i just tried to log in 6 times to make this post, and my username shows up on the index page as being logged in, but when i try to post, the board keeps telling me to log in.
don't know what i'm doing wrong, maybe it's just my computer being uncooperative. anyway, i just wanted to identify my previous post, to avoid misunderstanding.
bobbe
Nike:
Well ECho, thank you for finally asking me ....
I have been posting at the other board for about 3 months, and I THOUGHT, I had made a few good friends there that I truly enjoyed talking with online in the forum so I was concerned (maybe overly) when they left. YOU have only been there a few times....besides the fact that you just oddly happened to be there when things went south...what is your interest in all this???
Nike:
Instead you write about people falling in love with a site! A SITE? It is people I connected with not this site, your site, or any other site.
I wrote about people falling in love with a SITE??? I DID?? When? where?
Heyyyyy, is this Tammy?!
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