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« on: May 10, 2005, 10:38:32 AM »
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        When i ask you to listen to me and you start giving advice
                    you have not done what i asked
        When i ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me i
                          shoudnt feel that way
                 you are trampling on my feelings
        When i ask you to listen to me, and you feel you have to do
                   something to solve my problems
         you have failed me, strange as that may seem
           Listen! All i asked, was that you listen, not to talk or do
                                   just hear me
      When you do something for me that i can and need to do for myself
                  you contribute to my fears and weakness
     But, when you accept as a simple fact that i do feel what i feel
     no matter how irrational, then i can quit trying to convince you
      and get back to the business of understanding whats behind this
                                irrational feeling
                And when thats clear, the answers are obvious
                                and i dont need advice
 Irrational feelings make sense when we understand whats behind them
        So, please, listen and just hear me. And if you want to talk
             wait a minute for your turn; an i will listen to you

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« Reply #1 on: May 10, 2005, 02:45:02 PM »
I hope whoever reads can understand my little poem
Denise

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« Reply #2 on: May 10, 2005, 03:29:31 PM »
safe hugs for Denise
((((((((((Denise))))))))))

very powerful, very thought provoking. thank you. in your own pain, you have yet been able to give this to us all.

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« Reply #3 on: May 10, 2005, 03:50:22 PM »
Denise.  What a beautiful poem.  I understood perfectly.  You remind me to do this for my children....actually they remind me when I try to "fix" and all they want is for me to listen.
It is a good reminder....it is what everyone should get...it's about respect.
Thank you.

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« Reply #4 on: May 12, 2005, 08:12:16 AM »
I'll try harder  :)

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« Reply #5 on: May 20, 2005, 07:51:12 AM »
As I was slowly passing
an orphan's home one day,
I stopped for just a little while
to watch the children play.
Alone a girl was standing
and when I asked her why,
she turned with eyes that could not see
and she began to cry.

I'm nobody's child,
I'm nobody's child.
Just like the flowers
I'm growing wild.
I got no mummy's kisses
I got no daddy's smile.
Nobody wants me,
I'm nobody's child.

No mummy's arms to hold me
or sooth me when I cry,
'cos sometimes I feel so lonesome
I wish that I could die.
I'll walk the streets of heaven
where all blinds can see.

And just like for the other kids
it will be a home for me.

I'm nobody's child,
I'm nobody's child.
Just like the flowers
I'm growing wild.
I got no mummy's kisses
I got no daddy's smile.
Nobody wants me,
I'm nobody's child.
Denise

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« Reply #6 on: May 20, 2005, 07:52:18 AM »
Not my own work, but a song that i remember from childhood
Denise

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« Reply #7 on: May 20, 2005, 08:13:34 AM »
Quote from: Denise
Not my own work, but a song that i remember from childhood


Thanks for the song, Denise.  Nice to see you.

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« Reply #8 on: May 20, 2005, 03:05:52 PM »
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I'm nobody's child,
I'm nobody's child.
Just like the flowers
I'm growing wild.
I got no mummy's kisses
I got no daddy's smile.
Nobody wants me,
I'm nobody's child.

No mummy's arms to hold me
or sooth me when I cry,
'cos sometimes I feel so lonesome
I wish that I could die.
I'll walk the streets of heaven
where all blinds can see.

And just like for the other kids
it will be a home for me.



OMG did that make me cry.

at first i thought you wrote it..... and i was glad you were expressing yourself. but if you didnt write it, its kind of good in a way, to think, that others have felt similar ways. i really hope you are hanging in there.

d'smom

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« Reply #9 on: May 20, 2005, 03:57:46 PM »
Quote from: Denise
As I was slowly passing
an orphan's home one day,
I stopped for just a little while
to watch the children play.
Alone a girl was standing
and when I asked her why,
she turned with eyes that could not see
and she began to cry.

I'm nobody's child,
I'm nobody's child.
Just like the flowers
I'm growing wild.
I got no mummy's kisses
I got no daddy's smile.
Nobody wants me,
I'm nobody's child.

No mummy's arms to hold me
or sooth me when I cry,
'cos sometimes I feel so lonesome
I wish that I could die.
I'll walk the streets of heaven
where all blinds can see.

And just like for the other kids
it will be a home for me.

I'm nobody's child,
I'm nobody's child.
Just like the flowers
I'm growing wild.
I got no mummy's kisses
I got no daddy's smile.
Nobody wants me,
I'm nobody's child.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/england/essex/johns_journey_archive/johns_journey_5_12_69.shtml

NOBODY'S CHILD

Karen Young was born in Sheffield in 1946. As a teenager she worked in a record shop and in 1964 joined a group called The Counterbeats. She later went solo and recorded on Pye and Philips in 1965 and 1967. She was spotted by The Bachelors while they were touring.

They were on the Decca label but told their managers Phil and Dorothy Solomon about her. Irishman Phil Solomon ran his own record label called Major Minor and he signed her up.
Karen Young recorded Nobody's Child, a well known song north of the border and it was a big hit.

While the song was in the charts, the BBC decided to ban another record which went on to become No.1 Je Ta'aime by Serge Gainsbourg and Jane Birkin was on both the Major Minor and Fontana labels and one or two pop newspaper readers were upset when they were denied hearing it on the radio.

One complained that the BBC thought it more beneficial to play a song about a blind orphan, unfortunately sung in English, than it is to play a French song about love.

Karen Young's Her follow up was expected to do well too but it failed. Allentown Jail had done well for Forties and Fifties singers Lita Roza and Jo Stafford, but for Karen it didn't take off.
She returned to cabaret performances.

Twenty one years later Nobody's Child would be released again, this time recorded by a group of legendary singers and musicians. The Traveling Wilburys - Bob Dylan, Roy Orbison, George Harrison, Jeff Lynne and Tom Petty - released the song for the Romanian Angels Appeal. On the B side was With A Little Help From My Friends sung by Ringo Starr, together with a track called Lumiere by former Eurythmic, Dave Stewart.

The song included a dedication written by Olivia Harrison. It made No.44 in the charts.

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« Reply #10 on: May 20, 2005, 09:54:43 PM »
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When you do something for me that i can and need to do for myself
you contribute to my fears and weakness


Thank you Denise for this line in particular. To me this is what I experienced growing up with my controlling parents and you've expressed it beautifully.

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« Reply #11 on: May 23, 2005, 09:34:08 AM »
I have just managed to download the karen young version of nobodys child on my mp3, looks like i missed a verse out to :cry:
Denise