I have been apart from my N for over 2 years now, and thankfully haven't had a moment's thought of going back ever since I learned about N-ism. But he is still in the same geographic area and we have a few minor mutual acquaintances. He semed to have taken my 'no contact' seriously and stopped his attempts to contact me many moons ago - BUT, if proof is needed that they NEVER go away, I need to vent right now because he called and left a message on my cell phone last night, in typical N fashion. My mother passed away one month ago, so his message was that he had heard this news and he 'really' wanted to talk to me because 'he knew how close we were'. Like I really needed him to resurrect at this difficult time. Any excuse to scan for n-supply. No, I have no desire to call him. I just needed to vent. Thanks for being here.
By the way when I try to post with my logon ID 'nofights', it won't let me (tells me 'that userid is already taken'), so I am just posting as 'guest'. I am the same person who posted as 'guest' in the 'offering support' message for the thread to 'acapella, et al'
