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Sallying Forth

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Re: My Story (unbelievable but true)
« Reply #15 on: September 27, 2005, 07:54:07 PM »
After I was born she was left alone with me during the day until my grandparents (paternal) realized she was not taking proper care of me, so they helped out caring for me so she could go back to work. After she stopped working (when I was age 2), she could not cope with me.  I was very intelligent and active.  So the doctors tranquilized ME at age 2 so that she could better deal with me.
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Whoa! This is what my h's Nmother did to him when he was a child. She couldn't handle him so she had the doctors drug him. He was given Phenobarbital until finally he started to have reactions to it. Then he was given to his aunt to be raised. A typical N response to her own child. Disgusting!
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Re: My Story (unbelievable but true)
« Reply #16 on: September 27, 2005, 10:00:42 PM »
(Lizbeth)) my thoughts are with you thank you so much for sharing your story.
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Re: My Story (unbelievable but true)
« Reply #17 on: September 28, 2005, 12:07:31 AM »
So sorry for all you've been through, Lizbeth, and for all of the pain, especially the aftermath.   Maybe it was a safe time to release it?  Or maybe there was just so much....too much to contain any longer?  It's good that you were here speaking.  I hope things are going much better for you now.

You have certainly acted honourably by all that you did for your sibblings and even making a decision re your mother (you could have refused or insisted your sister be located by the police but you took the responsibility and did what had to be done), and giving your father more than his share of the proceeds......waaaaaaay more than generous.  You have been so responsible, always the strong one...for your sibblings to lean on, fighting for your brother's welfare, standing up to your abusers like a little soldier girl.  Too much responsibility for a child, a young adult, even as an adult.....but you've taken it on and done your best.

I believe your story..finish as you are ready.  It's tiring just reading it, so I can imagine the energy it took to write it.  You're doing a good job.  Hopefully it's a bit purging to at least do that?

(((((((((Lizbeth))))))))

There aren't any words to soothe the wounds of such a dramatic and traumatic experience.   Or at least, I don't know them (wish I did).  You're very admirable and brave for telling us about it.

Sela
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Re: My Story (unbelievable but true)
« Reply #18 on: September 28, 2005, 05:12:54 PM »
Hi Lizbet! So happy you are joining us here! Welcome! Your story brought tears to my eyes. Unbelievable the horrific stories we read here but truly inspirational they are and how courageious we are! You are a survivor and i think your finding this forum and having the courage and heart to bear your soul is amazing and maybe the first step towards your healing. I'm sure alot of us find your story really resonates with ours. won't distract from your story, but many of the experiences of yours totally parallel mine. So unbelievably damaging to a child to suffer such abuse when you are completely powerless and voiceless and your family are your first role models and are supposed to give you unconditional love and protection. Good on you for getting a handle on the eating disorder. I work in psych and am a recovering addict and certainly have had my issues with food. Such a seemingly impossible disorder to get a handle on given that we can't live without food- unlike drugs etc. I know this is exhausting and overwhelming to start speaking here, but please keep talking. We all are here to listen, validate and support you and each other. Hugs to you Moira
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Re: My Story (unbelievable but true)
« Reply #19 on: September 29, 2005, 09:09:28 PM »
Lizbeth,

I  find myself thinking and wondering to hear more about what you you think might have enabled you to handle such
a on what you have found that you think has might have given you strength and hope to handle such challenging things in your life that you have revealed here.  Or is it a mystery :) how you have been able to survive so much.

Then beyond the past sense of things, what you are seeking and wondering about that might give further insight into the understandings and goals you might seek.

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Re: My Story (unbelievable but true)
« Reply #20 on: October 26, 2005, 11:21:25 AM »
I'm still here, but I've been dealing with an issue with my sister that is too painful to write about.  I just read.


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Re: My Story (unbelievable but true)
« Reply #21 on: October 26, 2005, 11:24:16 AM »
I didn't mean to ignore the people who wrote on my thread; I just didn't realize it had become active again and was on vacation when the first post started.  Am just checking back in today after a month or so (reading).

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Re: My Story (unbelievable but true)
« Reply #22 on: October 26, 2005, 03:27:10 PM »
Lizbeth hon.... big hugs to you.

When you are ready to continue, we will be just as willing to listen. xx
Here's a little hug for u
To make you smilie while ur feeling blue
To make u happy if you're sad
To let u know, life ain't so bad
Now I've given a hug to u
Somehow, I feel better too!
Hugs r better when u share
So pass one on & show u care

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Re: My Story (unbelievable but true)
« Reply #23 on: October 27, 2005, 09:31:42 AM »
Thank you so much, H&H, it helps just to know that there are people here who will listen when the time comes.  Somtimes I find it too emotionally exhausting to talk about a situation when I'm actually going through it.  Reading this board helps me all the time, whether I can particpate in the discussions or not.

Again, I thank you for your kindness.

Liz


Lizbeth hon.... big hugs to you.

When you are ready to continue, we will be just as willing to listen. xx