tis said narcissist oft take counsel and use it to manipulat

[uhoh]

yep i have found that too u try to point out
their bad ways and they can sound appreciative
but it often seems in some sometimes subconscious way
they take the info and twist it around to add to
their manipulative skills... what a bummer...
so anyone know any topics at this forum
where various tricky techniques of narcissists
are treated..
and just a warning too
narcissist might come here and as if trying
to change and thinking they are
..becoming more skilled in their manipulitive ways
////....gasp

[Serena]

Before I was wise enough to know that my mother was the archetype N, I believed the fault die lie in me.  I broke down so many times, begging her forgiveness, confiding in her, asking her advice.

OK, I'm back...

I just ran over to the pillar and hit my head off it because I now know how very stupid I was all those years ago.

Anything I confided to her became a guided missile turned back at me.

I can honestly say that I can laugh about it now because out of nowhere (well, years of therapy actually), I developed the NBS filter.  It works like magic, I hear exactly what she says, decipher, decode and translate it and then file it away in the large file of 'incessant chatter' archive in my head.

Should I patent it?

[uhoh]

well yes that is fascinating how n's
can turn things around offered to them as help
or whatever and use it to manipulate...

most fallen beings ..humans and such u know
do that
but tis the grand style with which narcissist oft
do it that can be so uh entertaining to observe
but not caught up in their web

narcissists it seems many concur
be a type that could be the hardest to
bring to awareness and change
well too psychopaths but
they are probably mostly full blown narcissist

i wonder what kinds of areas of wonder or intrigue
you have found interesting about narcissists
one that you might google up
is npa personalty theory by benis

[Anonymous]

narcissist might come here and as if trying
to change and thinking they are
..becoming more skilled in their manipulitive ways
////....gasp

Are you referring to anyone in particular?

[UHOH]

no i wasnt
but now i think i have spotted something maybe