Posted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 6:03 am Post subject:
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No matter which approach is utilized in the explanation and treatment of narcissism it is important to recognize that the narcissistic individual is a complex and multifaceted human being. Deep inside narcissistic individuals experience tremendous pain and suffering, for which they attempt to compensate for by the projection of the grandiose front. These people are not character disordered. They are people tortured by narcissistic injury and crippled by developmental arrests in functioning which rob them of the richness of life they deserve. They are good people, who are hurting. They are living and suffering the narcissistic style.
YES N'S ARE HURTING AND SUFFERING-(THOUGH BECAUSE OF THEIR DISEASE THEY DO NOT KNOW ANY OF THIS) WE WHO HAVE GIVEN ALL FOR AN N ALL READY KNOW ALL THIS. (NO SHOCK TO US) BUT SUFFERING WITH THEM DOES NOT STOP THEIR SUFFERING -IF IT DID WE WOULD ALL BE HEALED AND IN HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS WITH N'S- THEY ARE ILL (MENTAL ILLNESS) AND IN THIS I AGREE TO SHOW COMPASSION BUT MY SUFFERING WILL NOT STOP ANYTHING--.IN DISTANCE AND HEALING I WILL STOP MY SUFFERING -AND I BELEIVE N IS A GENETIC DISORDER.
WILDRAIN-- (WO HAS BEEN SUFFERING THE AFTER EFFECTS OF THE "NARCISSISTIC DISORDER ALL HER LIFE"
N mother- N grandmother- N brother- N daughter- N B/f
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Posted: Mon Jun 13, 2005 1:57 pm Post subject: Narcissism Paste
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THIS WAS TOOOOO FUNNY!!!
THANK YOU
I NEEDED TO LAUGH!!!
WILDRAIN~~~
Narcissism Paste
1 medium narcissist
juice of two fresh lemons
6 Roma tomatoes, fully ripe
3 cloves garlic
4 Portobello mushrooms (large), caps only (may substitute 8 Porcini musrooms, with stems)
Olive oil (extra virgin, cold pressed)
1 cup parsley (fresh, by volume, leaves only)
Oregano
freshly ground black pepper
coarse Kosher salt
Carefully select one ripe, but not over-ripe, narcissist and place them on a kitchen or bar stool over a nonporous surface (linoleum or quarry tile). This recipe works best if the narcissist selected is wearing either silk or Irish linen. Hand the narcissist a glass of white wine and encourage them to talk about themselves while you combine the other ingredients.
Dice the tomatoes and place in an earthenware crock.
Peel and sliver the garlic and add it to the tomatoes.
Slice the mushrooms and add; toss mixture.
Add oregano, juice of one lemon, and black pepper to taste.
In a separate bowl, separate the parsley leaves from the stems, crush the leaves, and add one tsp. olive oil.
Combine this with the remaining lemon juice, black pepper, and Kosher salt to taste.
When the narcissist's self-promotion, self-absorption, or self-satisfaction appears to be close to a local maximum, carefully invert the earthenware crock precisely over the top of the crown of the narcissist's head, assuring that the tomato-garlic mixture is evenly distributed over all accessible surfaces.
Enjoy your fresh parsley salad
