I'm not dr. Grossman but I'm responding anyway.
1. Where does personal responsiblity kick in with your idea of voicelessness? It seems to me as though the intent is to pass blame to others rather than encourage people to face their inner pain and accept how this pain plays a role in relationships which go awry. Whether this is your intention or not I'm afraid reading this forum is clear that is the result.
I don't think this is going on in this forum at all. It's the opposite. People have been twisting themselves into pretzels blaming THEMSELVES all their lives. And it's not even about blame. It's about boundaries, where one person ends and another begins, and how much responsibility to take for problems in relationships.
2. I see not long ago you deleted a post stating it contained many taunts. how do you define a taunt? Is it okay for someone to taunt those who may suffer from a personality disorder? I see no reason to believe it concerns you whatsoever if the taunt is politically correct in your eyes.
My observation is that he deletes posts where someone makes a personal remark about another poster. I haven't seen anyone who has a personality disorder, or who has been taunted because of it.
3. From what I've been told by others you claim to have worked some with people who are NPD in your practice. That being the case can you put yourself in their shoes and see how the approach being practiced in this forum might well be destructive to them? Or does that matter to you?
People with NPD are not on this board, and it's not designed for them.
4. How likely is in your professional experience for a person to heal their wounds by placing blame on their problems on others? If you can provide evidence documenting this (confirmed by an indepedent source) I'd love to see it.
Sounds like an accusation or sarcasm..
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