Author Topic: A Lefty in a Right-Handed World  (Read 9904 times)

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Re: A Lefty in a Right-Handed World
« Reply #30 on: July 22, 2005, 05:37:17 PM »
I think october explained some of this really well on an earlier post. When it comes to genetics, the only way recessive genes win out, is if they are both recessive. One dominant, out of the 2, and the dominant wins.

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Re: A Lefty in a Right-Handed World
« Reply #31 on: July 23, 2005, 09:27:48 PM »
My father had very blue eyes, my mother very brown. 2 of us had blue, 1  had brown, 5 had hazel, and mine hazel turning brilliant green at times. My x had one blue eye, one green eye-my children, one has very brown, the other hazel. My son's very brown had to be because I had a very brown gene within me that I inhereited from my mother and passed on.

Eyes are the most complicated gene according to all the web sites I've researched. If it wasn't for a multitude of factors (low resting heart rate, body build, bent pinky, earlobes, hair color and type, eyes, tongue-tie, left-handedness, freckles) I would have never suspected a different father.

You have two genes for every trait. You get one from your mother and one from your father. Certain genes are dominant, and you only need one of the pair to give you its trait. If you don’t have a dominant gene, then you are recessive for that trait.

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On being a lefty. Both my parents were right handed. However, my mother said she was a lefty and they used to make you be a right handed person years ago. I have 2 left handed siblings, 6 right handed, and I am both-no one forced me. My x was left handed. Our children are 1 right, 1 left, the lefty, like me, also does things with the other hand-like I do, batting, golfing. And, by the way, he does do that left hand eating thing from the top of the bowl as you, IT, explained.

I got to watch two lefties in a restaurant yesterday eat exactly the way I eat with my right hand. However I noticed that not one person at the way I do with my right hand. That was a confirmation for me even though I always knew I ate different by watching my brothers, mother and father eat.

I read about being a lefty or a righty on line. It was actual research where they discovered you are born ambidextrous and then at some point begin to favor one hand over the other.

I've always had a problem with analog clocks and telling time on them. I was very glad when I could purchase a digital clock and even more happy when they were based on military time.

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In my observation, and from what I have read, left handed people are more creative. My left handed son is a natural actor, musician, artist. Have any of you noticed how many actors are left handed? IT, I can see where your natural ability in design comes to play if you are to be a lefty. I, too, have a natural ability in design-but being right handed also, well maybe I have the upper hand in all things :lol: Someone mentioned learning disabilities in lefties, my son did struggle in school, and I had difficulty comprehending in reading. I think it was because our "creative" minds were always somwhere else. :lol: However, we have very high IQs-which is possibly genetic too??
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I am creative: write, draw, play an instrument, write music, act and design. I didn't do well in school unless it was writing, drawing, designing or playing music. I had a difficult time with reading. However I now love to read. I haven't been able to excell in all areas the way I would have liked to and might still do some of those things. Overall though I like designing, writing, drawing, and playing music, in that order.

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Re: A Lefty in a Right-Handed World
« Reply #32 on: July 24, 2005, 12:50:26 AM »
Hi ITex:

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Imagine having two brothers name their children the same name.

That is weird/strange/odd eh?  What a reminder!! :x :x

I suppose you could decide that they are just names and not let it have an effect on you???

Do you see your sibblings often or have you cut contact with them??

I'm so sorry that all this disgusting stuff happened to you, ITex and I'm glad you're writing your books.  (((((((ITex)))))).

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Hello Sela,
Yes it is a weird/strange/odd reminder.

I think I've gotten to the point where the names are a reminder and that is it. The revelation and then acceptance has happened over the last 17 days. Strangely my own birthday was the catalyst for the change. On that day my therapist asked me if I thought my father was not my biological father. I think he suspected it because how I was singled out in my family. This was only after I shared my gut feelings. The two times I tried to answer him with the affirmative I got heart palpitations and a lump in my throat. I did finally say yes.

Since that day my heart palpitations, which I've had on and off for the last one and one half years, are for the most part gone. In my subconscious there was this truth I didn't want to speak. When I did gave the truth a voice that turned into freedom and the ability to let go.

I haven't seen my Nbro [his first, adopted, son is named Daniel], my youngest bro [his first or last, son is named Daniel] and my middle bro in 7 years. I have contact with the middle bro by email and sometimes phone. He and I have always been close because we're both middle children, introverts and musicians. My middle bro was not abused but has suffered the effects from my abuse because we were close. He has always maintained that I was abused even in the face of possible rejection from my entire family. I suspect my youngest bro may be N too.

In my family all the extroverts are N and the introverts are not.

My books have been my sanity. The place I can speak the truth. And of course my catharsis.

Thanks for the hugs again. :D
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