Marta, and Plunky I would believe the judge would read her report and follow as close to her recommendations. She had lots of direction from me, I asked for the moon and I got it!!!
In her report she took some of my own words from the statements I typed up and sent to her.
Some of her writings were what many of you said were KEY issues, being his health problems were not D's role
Ex sent a letter to D, I did not give it to her, not going to show her letters anytime ex is going againist what the mediator said for him NOT to do.
Ex is telling her he is going to put her in his WILL...........
Mediator told him not to talk about death and how he may die soon.
What a set-up, dangle the bait then take it away when you don't do what he says.
Tells her how the reason she does not want to write him, is she must be too young, (sounded like a put down)
Now I can get D back with the T she likes, will not need ex's permission.
I used this need, to ask for full leagal custody. Ex knowing D will be talking about him may keep his crazy talk in check.
I also think the mediator making ex submit to physicatiric evaluation will make him not want to push custody.
I almost wonder if he will even show up.
I faxed over his letter to me to the court, I don't know if they will use it, ex said he was bringing this letter to court, I think because he said he will bring a copy she may go ahead and submit.
He is Telling me to act like a human and don't be a B##ch like my Mother.
He had these rules someone wiser then him said about raising kids.
He telles me to LIVE BY these rules.........He forgets he can't tell me how to live........DUH!!!!!
He also tells me about how he will tell the dirty little secret about his brother, if brother doesn't do what he says.
I sent this letter just to hit home how much hate ex has for those that don't make him happy.
I fear that if I had a BF, he would no doubt make trouble where ever his D is concerned.
I have been busy, D and I are working on painting cardboard boxes and making bandannas for the local Pet adoption center. I love to paint, so been busy painting fishes and fun things on the cat boxes.
D is at a slumber party tonight.
The court papers main subject line says MOVE AWAY, the 1st judge and mediator have said I should be fine to stay here in TX. I hope I get the same judge and the one on monday will be ok with me staying in TX too!
Thanks for reading, Im a bit on edge, will be painting more boxes tonight to help me stay calm.... OR