What am I without my N?

[seasons]

I'm

[Marta]

Who am I, if I'm not the victim anymore?

Seasons, it will come as a beautiful surprize package to you, this who you are unbeknown even to you. May be you are not seasons, changing always at the mercy of the sun in your life, but an bunyan tree that grows and takes root or an eagle who soars in the sky. Who knows? Give yourself a chance to find out......

For myself, I am so much happier since I did an N pest control in my life. It is indeed freedom from hell. In the process of becoming myself, I have discovered so many aspects of myself and talents which I didn't know existed within me.

Best, Marta

[Chicken]

Hi Seasons,
I think that N's are a great distraction for us sometimes, we spend so much time and energy trying to figure them out that we never really get to look at ourselves.  N's prevent us from tackling our own issues, get rid of the N out of your life and then the real stuff comes up.  This is where I'm at now.  Although I am in the thick of it, I'm sure it's something I must go through rather than stifle with reckless behaviour, abusive relationships and self-destruction.  I think it takes a stronger person to face this struggle, and hopefully it will be worthwhile in the end.   I wish you all the strength and courage to face it on your own...

x Selkie x

[write]

For my experience:
you will be stronger, more peaceful, in control of your own life, not constantly walking on eggshells....you'll have the energy to work on yourself, on your own projects, and be free.

Good luck.

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[Hopalong]

You will be an adventure, a quiet or noisy discovery in motion, a peaceful painting, a creative spirit who begins to notice beauty because you're beginning to inhabit your own self, taking in moments of beauty around you, bringing them in so that you ultimately realize they're part of you, they're who you are. Beauty and music to you, Seasons. And laughter. A lot of laughter.

[Plucky]

Hi Seasons,
I kind of feel the same way.  If I get out of here, if I get away from what is bad, what I have always known...into the void?
Worst case scenario:  I get to reinvent myself.   Just the way I like.  And change at will.  Free!!!!!
If you can survive under the thumb of an N and come out alive, you can do anything!
Plucky

[Sallying Forth]

Who am I, if I'm not the victim anymore?

First a survivor and finally a thriver.