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Healing&Hopeful

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Hiya..... thailand
« on: December 12, 2005, 06:16:38 AM »
Hiya all

We got back from Thailand last Saturday and thought I'd share a few things which I felt some of you would possibly relate to and also appreciate.

We stayed a night in Bangkok, then flew to Chiang Mai for four nights.  The thai family guest house we were staying in, also was part of the school for life.

The School for Life was a charity organisation started by their family three years ago with inherited money.  They have a school in the hills where they look after orphaned children.  We spent a day at this school.  A lot of these children have aids because of the lack of education in the villages, some of the children were orphaned by the tsanami.  They are taught Maths, Thai, Thai dancing, English, and then they are taught a trade like bricklaying or organic farming.  These children are incredible!

There were two children with the thai family we were staying with.  Leon was their own child, who was 7.  A delightful little girl.  And then there was Con.  He had had trouble at the school, fighting etc and was the first child that they adopted themselves.  I didn't find out Con's life story until the day we left because I didn't want to treat him any different from Leon and I was scared I might.  This little lad of 8's story is heartbreaking.  His parents died and he went to live with his 80 year old grandmother.  She couldn't cope with him so put him in a box.  He hasn't been with the thai family very long and does try and bite people a fair bit.  Leon is amazing with him.... she is a little angel, so kind and patient with him.  A real eye opener hey!

We did travel down to southern thailand but the weather was awful.  Storms, flooding.... it was really scary (11 people died on the island because of the flooding).  I rang Mum to tell her we had managed to get on a flight out of there, and she proceeded to tell me how she had received the photo corners for her album.  WTF!  An expensive phone call and I wish I hadn't bothered.  Ho hum!

So we flew back to Chiang Mai to stay with this lovely family again for the rest of our stay.  It's amazing that some people with so little will share more with you than someone who has everything!

H&H xx
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Hopalong

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Re: Hiya..... thailand
« Reply #1 on: December 12, 2005, 09:52:54 AM »
And why is it not surprising that big-hearted H & H would spend her honeymoon amid people who need a big heart?

(Now really. Photo corners are MUCH more important than tsunami victims, H & H. When WILL you catch on?)  :shock:

Welcome home!  :P

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« Reply #2 on: December 12, 2005, 12:13:26 PM »
I rang Mum to tell her we had managed to get on a flight out of there, and she proceeded to tell me how she had received the photo corners for her album.

oh man, we couldn't make this stuff up! Flooding and photo corners: N-tales....

Thank goodness you didn't inherit her selfish genes.

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Re: Hiya..... thailand
« Reply #3 on: December 13, 2005, 01:39:01 AM »
What a wonderful experience.
Your mother's world is so SMALL.  Yours is just expanding,
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Re: Hiya..... thailand
« Reply #4 on: December 13, 2005, 10:45:37 AM »
Wow... you understand from a little comment.  It's incredible.

Hoppy... I'm not sure about the big heart.  You know the most amazing thing... these kids were so happy.  The older one's were practising their english on us, but many of them were laughing and playing.

Write... no we couldn't make this stuff up... it's such an alien world they live in.

You are right Plucky... I do see their world as small.  I always say that they live in their own closeted world, peering out at the rest of us.

There's more to the photo corners... When we got married we were waiting for some photo corners for our wedding album, so we could finish it off.  It was my mum and stepdad's wedding anniversary about 7 weeks after our wedding.  The corners were delayed as they were lost in transit on the way to the supplier.  Everytime I spoke to Mum she'd ask about these sodding photo corners.  I'm not sure what I was supposed to do, materialise them out of nowhere?!  I ordered two packs, one for her and one for us.  The supplier managed to get hold of one pack which she sent to me and Mum straight away went, well you can forward them on to me before you go away then.  I did try to explain that we would like to finish our album and you know what she said "Well, if you send them to me, I'll do mine and if there's any left over, you can do yours!"

What can you say to that?  They are photo corners and it just sounds petty to say no, we're going to finish our wedding album off, so I just sent them.

Luckily, while we were away I received two packs so we can finish our album off anyway.  Something so small and trivial but it also seemed like a great big deal.
Here's a little hug for u
To make you smilie while ur feeling blue
To make u happy if you're sad
To let u know, life ain't so bad
Now I've given a hug to u
Somehow, I feel better too!
Hugs r better when u share
So pass one on & show u care

CeeMee

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Re: Hiya..... thailand
« Reply #5 on: December 14, 2005, 10:30:04 PM »
H&H

That sounds like an absolutely wonderful learning experience.   Thank you so much for sharing it.  What you say is so true about the poor.  That's been my experience too.

CeeMee